When it comes to good first date questions always ask open questions rather than closed questions. A closed question requires only a yes or no answer. For example, do you like skiing? Whereas an open question requires more than just a one-word answer. For example, tell me about your favorite holiday that you’ve been on?
Open questions create a conversation and once the other person starts talking to you then have the ability to ask further questions so they expand on what they’re saying. This can help to avoid any awkward silences and help you top get to know them better.
It’s really important to practice active listening when getting to know a person. Active listening is when your concentrate and really hear what the other person has to say. The majority of people are just waiting for their turn to speak in a conversation and never really hear what the other person is saying.
By giving the other person your full attention, you make them feel special and important which is something that almost everyone wants to feel. The best way to get to know someone is to really hear what they have to say.If you get stuck on a date and don’t know what to talk about ask them questions about themselves.Here are some examples of good questions to help you to really get to know someone:
- If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- If you could do anything tomorrow, what would you choose to do?
- When you were younger what did you want to be when you grew up?
- What is your favorite movie/book/band/artist?
- Name something that really makes you happy?
- What achievement are you most proud of?
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