Ball Gag Bondage

Ball Gag Bondage

In your typical BDSM relationship you have one partner who is a submissive, and another who is the dominant partner. The submissive is tied up, restrained, gagged and teased. There’s something particularly thrilling and erotically satisfying about being completely submissive to your partner’s desires and demands. The anticipation and anxiety of being sexually restrained will open up a whole set of new doors to emotions and desires you never knew you had!

Most couples have experimented with restraints and handcuffs, and, thanks to the Fifty Shades trilogy, many more have enjoyed the pleasures of bondage. So if you’re looking to spice up your sexual encounters even more – why not up the ante and introduce a ball gag to your bag of tricks?

Ball gags are particularly arousing for the wearer, as well as for the dominant partner. For the submissive, accepting a ball gag while restrained is the point of no return: you have to trust your partner implicitly which is at once terrifying and thrilling. You truly embrace the role of submissive, and while you’re restrained to your bed, you could just as well be tied up in a medieval dungeon ala Christian Grey. Your imagination runs wild (especially if you are blindfolded) and all of your sensations are heightened as your partner explores your body.

For the dominant partner, watching your submissive squirm is an overwhelmingly erotic sensation. You have to watch them carefully to measure their reactions and you can’t rely on their voice to guide you through the sexual activity. You are in complete control: you decide when, what and where.

There are a number of different types of gags available, but the ball gag is the basic model which can be as sexy as it is functional. The Sex and Mischief Ball Gag has a simple soft solid plastic ball that is held in place with an adjustable collar. It’s a great way to introduce ball gags into your bedroom BDSM before you upgrade to an extreme fantasy gag like the spider gag or internal-penis ball gag.

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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