Beginner's Guide To Fisting - How To Fist A Woman For Maximum Pleasure

Beginner’s Guide To Fisting – How To Fist A Woman For Maximum Pleasure

Anal penetration is a stimulating game that spans a lot of different scenes; from prostate milking to the extreme anal fisting. Anal fisting may be a popular game but it is definitely not something that can be indulged in by those who are totally green when it comes to the world of anal stimulation. To achieve the stretching ability that allows for a whole fist to fit into the anal cavity, a bit of anal stretching has to be embarked on until the sphincter muscles can stretch to the desired circumference.

For those who can accommodate large toys with ease, then it is your turn to try out a bit of some fisting action. As with all anal play, here are some ground rules;

Safety

Always make sure your fingernails are trimmed before starting the session.

To prevent infections, put on rubber gloves. The bacteria in the anal cavity may find its way into your blood system through tiny cuts on your hands.

Always ensure that you use plenty of lubricant to ease the entry and to reduce friction. Avoid using oil based lubricant when wearing latex gloves.

When you get past the knuckles, let the rest of your hand be pulled in naturally. The knuckles make for the widest part of the hand and once it is in there is no more resistance.

Have your douche/enema session 3 to 4 hours before the fisting session and another shallow and quick clean just before play time.

Never force your fist in if you cannot get the knuckles past the opening. Take the session slow and if the resistance persists, stop.

Ensure that the ass is adequately warmed up before the session to ease the sphincter muscles into relaxation.

Warm Up

Fisting requires extensive preparation beforehand. For starters, ensure that the bowels are empty by going to the toilet before the session is to start. This helps you avoid an embarrassing situation. Also make sure that you avoid fibrous and spicy foods days leading up to the session.

If you require a deeper and more extensive deep cleaning, you can have a douche/enema session 3 to 4 hours before the anal play session.

The sphincter muscles require a bit of relaxation before game time so take the opportunity to warm the muscles up before the session starts. Using adequate lubricant, insert one finger into the anus and let it rest there until you feel your muscles relax. Next insert the second finger until you feel the muscles relax a bit more. Also, you can use a small butt plug to warm up before the play, and gradually increase the plug size to ensure sufficient stretching is achievable.

For vaginal fisting, use an adequate amount of lube and insert the practice dildo to stretch out your vaginal muscles.

Fisting Procedure

Due to the copious amount of lubricant that will be used, lay down a sheet to catch any excess lubricant.

Find the perfect position for the play. Lying on your back is always highly recommended as it helps in relaxation especially for beginners.

The hand should be in the shape of a silent duck. This shape is formed by positioning the fingers tightly together and straight and then the thumb is folded over in the palm.
Slowly insert the hand into the opening until you reach the knuckles. During the entire time, keep communicating to determine if your partner is experiencing any form of pain,
The knuckles are the widest part of the hand, making this the trickiest part when it comes to fisting. Slowly ease the knuckles into the opening and do not push it in if you encounter any resistance. A little discomfort is to be expected but if your partners states that they are in pain; stop immediately.

Once the knuckles are through, the rest of your hand will be sucked in with ease and from there you can curl your fist.

Indulge in the fisting positions of your choice, taking care to always confer with your partner to ensure that they can handle the movements.

To withdraw, simple form the silent duck shape again and slowly remove the hand.

Wipe the ass and the surrounding region to clean up the excessive lube.

Ksenia Sobchak

Ksenia Sobchak, BA (Hons) Fashion Communication: Fashion Journalism, Central Saint Martins

Ksenia Sobchak enjoys blogging on fashion, style, lifestyle, love and CBD areas. Prior to becoming a blogger, Ksenia worked for a renowned fashion brand. Ksenia is a contributing author to leading fashion, lifestyle and CBD magazines and blogs. You can bump into Ksenia at her favourite cafe in South Kensington where she has written most blogs. Ksenia is a staunch advocate of CBD and its benefits to people. Ksenia is also on the panel of CBD reviewers at CBD Life Mag and Chill Hempire. Her favourite form of CBD are CBD gummies and CBD tinctures. Ksenia is a regular contributor at leading fashion, lifestyle as well as CBD magazines and blogs.

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