Beginner's Guide to Sex Swings

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Swings

Getting your freak on may have you dreaming up of new ways to get the big O. Enjoying new ways of indulging your fantasies may be great, and with all the new information coming up, it may be about time you dipped your toe into the pond. There is always the need to reinvent bedroom antics before your sex life is plagued with boredom and repetition. If you are thinking of trying swings, there are a few things you should have in mind.

Introduction to Sex Swings

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Swings
  • Set Up

Contrary to mass belief, the sex swing is not as bulky as it is made out to be. Most people are worried that they would have to make very notable changes to their ceilings, which is very far from the truth. Most sex swings come with stable screws, and all you need is a sturdy ceiling being to attach the swing to. The swing is attached to a very stable metal frame that is able to hold your weight comfortable. The frame is then attached to the beam using the special screw that comes with it.

For those whose bedrooms don’t have a ceiling beam, there are sex swings designed to be attached to door frames. The over-the-door swings can be secured to the normal door frames and are stable enough to hold your weight. They can be attached and detached in a few minutes and your visitors would be none the wiser as there is no trace left of the swing.

  • Playtime

The straps are designed to hold your bottoms, arms and/or feet, giving you that comfortable feeling of swinging from the chandelier. Hold on tight as you enjoy the various positions you can manage. With the swing holding your weight comfortably, sink into your sensations and enjoy your ride until the very explosive and orgasmic end.

  • Storage

Once you are done with your session just detach the swing and fold it up. Once folded, you can slide it under the bed or tuck it away in your closet. Although not all sex swings are easy to stow away, most have been designed with privacy in mind and they are foldable for ultimate discretion.

Sexual Positions to Try Out

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Swings

Swinging may seem like a bit too complicated when it comes to sex, but indulging in this game is not rocket science, just a new way of getting your rocks off.

  • Sitting in the swing, the woman rocks back and forth, sliding up and down the man’s cock. In this position, the man is standing right in front of his partner with his cock standing at attention.
  • To hit the deeper spots or even provide some sweet access to the anus, hold your knees up in the swing and rock back and forth stroking your man’s member.
  • Getting a blowjob gets even more adventurous with the sex swing involved. Have your partner kneeling in position and just rock back and forth as your meat gets slurped so good you can’t help but ask for more of where that came from.
  • Get yourself some weightless self-loving by getting in the swing for a wild masturbation session. With your toys in hand, swing back and forth as your vibrator gets your juices flowing. The sex swing ensures that even self-pleasure has an adventurous twist to it.
  • If you are feeling even more adventurous, engage in some simultaneous pleasure moments by having a suspended 69 session with your partner. With one of you lying on the bed and the other in the swing, get slurping and watch as this simple swinging session gets even hotter by the minute. 

Whether you are just looking for adventure or seeking ways to spice up your relationship, sex swings require patience and open communication as you indulge. Safety is always the most important aspect of adventurous sexual encounters. Always ensure that you clean the accessories well once you are done, preferably with antibacterial toy cleaner. Take your time choosing your swing and/or position enhancer and always go with the toys that match your skill level. Once you find your match, take a bold step and indulge in the sensations that will be give you mind blowing orgasms during every session.

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Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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