As a sexologist, here are my favorite picks;

Sex toys

Dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and strap-ons are my best sex accessories due to the immense pleasure they add to my sex life. They can be used to explore numerous erogenous zones in both partners for wilder orgasms. My two favorite sex toys are realistic vibrators and dildos due to their versatility in stimulating the clit or g-spot and real sensations. They are highly body-safe as they are made of premium materials. The vibrators deliver intense sensual, and powerful vibes on the erogenous parts and are easy to use, clean, and store. 


For lubes, I prefer water-based lubes with organic ingredients like the Sliquid Organics Water-based lube. It works effectively on all skin types; toy surfaces can be used on the vagina or anus. The lube is fragrance-free, contains hydrating properties, and is ideal for all skin types. It has a well-balanced pH, less sticky, and does not dirty the sheets, explaining why it’s my favorite lube.


The Durex natural condoms get things done without using lubes and come with a friendly process. The natural ingredients used to process these condoms make them pleasing to me and can be used in various sex toys. It is lubricated to enhance comfort in both partners and contains no irritating ingredients such as fragrances, colors, and flavors. Another option is the Durex sensitive condom which allows you to experience a raw-like feeling due to its sleek, thin, and lubricated design.

Sex Apps

Be naughty app

I highly recommend this app to anyone looking to better their sex life, dating, and no-strings-attached relationships. With over 13 million users globally, Be naughty is the app you need to satisfy your sexual needs. It’s easy to operate, fun to look for matches, safe and fast. The like features allow you to connect with potential matches with a simple swipe in the gallery. Get to learn new naughty ways to spice things in your sex life from this amazing app.

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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