How Often Should You Talk When You First Start Dating (With Tips)

How Often Should You Talk When You First Start Dating (With Tips)

As a relationship expert, I advise that you should talk 2-3 times a day when you first start dating. Here, texting or calling can be a tool for making dates and planning for the next date. Although most people think talking every day when they start dating is a brilliant idea, it does not imply the relationship is on the right path from a relationship’s expert point of view. Talking too much may only help if you have made a solid connection in real life. In other words, without a solid real-life connection, talking too much weakens your young relationship rather than strengthening it.

How to Keep Your Conversation Flowing When You First Start Dating

  • Ask each other questions
  • Ask about each other’s favorites, including food, sports team, interests, passion, or hobbies.
  • Keep away from religion and politics
  • Do not talk more about yourselves. This can turn your dates into therapy sessions, which is not a good thing.

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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