How To Delay Ejaculation

How To Delay Ejaculation

Are you finding it challenging to last longer in bed? Below are tips you can use to delay ejaculation including masturbating before sex, wearing condoms, and trying sex positions that work against premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is a major cause of distress in modern relationships. We all know great sex is contributed by the ability of a mam to hold ejaculation for more than 2 minutes and thrust the passive partner in a way never seen before. While others use condoms to achieve this, some smash it raw but still satisfy their lovers. Worse enough, others put on condoms but ejaculate within seconds.  If you fall in the category of men severely hit by PE, take a deep breath and relax because this blog is here to save you.

What is Premature Ejaculation?

Some men find themselves reaching climax within the first 2 minutes or below. In most cases, partners taking the penetrations remain with nothing to hold into to also reach a powerful climax. Therefore, premature ejaculation is “cumming” first after a few thrusts. While many men may consider this as a failure in the bedroom, PE is a common problem that eats most men in the world at one point in their lives. Amazingly, this health and psychological problem can be reversed to make you the bedroom monster you once were or wish to become. Let us first understand what are premature ejaculation causes before looking at the tips to correct it for a healthy and satisfying love life.

What Are the Leading Causes of Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation affects more than 25% of men at one point in their lives. For primary PE, one might be experiencing psychological challenges, particularly in men with childhood sex-related trauma that comes back often during sex, negatively affecting their performance. Acquired premature ejaculation is mainly contributed by stress, depression, or anxiety.  Other factors linked to secondary premature ejaculation include high blood pressure, prostate diseases, anxiety to perform during sex, relationship challenges, binge drinking, and thyroid problems. Let us now look at various ways to delay ejaculation.

Masturbate A Few Hours Before Sex

Masturbation can cause or prevent premature ejaculation. In most cases, frequent masturbation can work for short-term sexual performance. However, doing it occasionally, particularly when about to have sex, can help delay ejaculation, assuring both of you have mind-blowing sex.  If it works, the second orgasm may also not be intense as the first. Try masturbating before the sex session to give your lover a powerful and long-lasting thrust.

Wear A Thick Condom Long Lasting Sexual Performance

While they are mostly used for childbirth control and the spread of infections, condoms can also delay ejaculation.  With these thin and stretchy little friends on, you can another later, reducing sensations when you dip your love tool in your partner’s ass or vagina. More surprisingly, thin condoms can help reduce sensations to allow you to last longer during sex.  If you go with thinner condoms, always check them during the action to avoid incidences of tearing that may expose you to infections.

Experiment With Sex Positions That Enhance Long Lasting Performance

Amazingly, there are sex positions you can try whether you use a condom or not to last a little longer in bed. Among the multiple sex positions that delay ejaculation, spooning is the most effective and trusted. In this position, the penetrative partner lies side by side and the one taking penetrations in front. What follows are amazing and long-lasting penetrations from behind, bringing both of you to a powerful climax. Spooning is characterized by shallow penetrations that do not overstimulate the nerve endings on your penis. Nonetheless, it ensures the penetrative partner moves slowly and subtly to the final glory.

Understand And Communicate Your Anxieties to Your Lover

As already discussed, anxiety to perform is among the leading causes of premature ejaculation in men.  Men who find themselves in this situation create ways to get and maintain erections in their minds, resulting in premature ejaculation. Therefore, one should understand the causes of anxiety and communicate with their partners before exploring what lies beath each other’s pants. Communicating openly can lower anxiety and increase sexual performance.

Avoid Rushing into Sex in New Relationships

Most young men fear the sexual disappointments in their new relationships.  To avoid frustration when you have sex with your lover, be bold and ask about having sex with them.  Avoiding this sexual conversation before hitting the bedroom can imply you are not fit to have sex with them. Take your time in the relationship and freely ask them for the company in fornication.  If both of you are okay with having sex will be a plus to you in those sessions behind closed doors.

Establish Friendship with Sex Toys

Yes, establishing a friendship with sex toys can make you become the monster you want in the bedroom. If things are falling apart in your sex life, bring in love rings to start getting those standing ovations with no time. Penis rings are worn at the base of the love tool to restrict blood flow from the penis, giving you harder and long-lasting erections. Others come with extra attachments that stimulate the clitoris if one getting penetrations takes charge of the sexual ride.

Experiment With Viagra to Cure Premature Ejaculation

With Viagra, you should know it does not treat the root cause of premature ejaculation but can deliver short-term results. For some people, Viagra reduces the fear of performing poorly in a new relationship, enhancing long-lasting sex.  However, dealing with the symptoms of PE should not be a big deal to you. Rather, target the root cause of the issues for long-term benefits. For that reason, do not rely on Viagra as the only solution to your premature ejaculation.

Throw Ejaculation Delay Sprays in The Mix

There are sprays and creams you can also use to delay ejaculation.  In use, these products cause numbness that holds ejaculation for a long time, allowing you to thrust your lover for a long time. These delay lubricants are available in many adult sex shops at competitive prices. Buy a bottle today to stay at the center of the game.

The Bottom Line

Premature ejaculation is a turn-off in the bedroom, particularly when having sex. However, you should relax and find the solution because you are not the only man experiencing it. Nevertheless, this blog has vital tips to help you delay ejaculation to get a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Tatyana Dyachenko
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For the past years, Tatyana has worked as a sex blogger and a relationship advisor. She has been featured in magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue. Vice, Tatler, Vanity Fair, and many others. Since 2016, Tatyana has focused on sexology, attended various training courses, participated in international conferences and congresses. “I wish people would address sexual issues in a timely manner! Forget shyness, prejudice and feel free to see a sex doctor for help or advice!” Tanya enjoys pursuing her flare for creativity through modelling, graffiti art, astronomy, and technology.

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