How To Reach Orgasm, Alone or With a Partner

How To Reach Orgasm, Alone or With a Partner

Set a Romantic Physical Environment

Setting a romantic physical environment is a surefire way of boosting your sex drive. You can set one by turning on sensual music, lighting a scented candle, or dimming the lights.

Try Other Sexual Activities and Positions

Following the same sexual routine each time and favoring certain positions during partnered sex or solo masturbation can make your bedroom boring and reduce the quality of your orgasm. As a sex expert, I suggest trying other sexual activities and sex positions for deep orgasms and elevated sex life.

Use Sex Toys

Sex toys, including vibrators, come with enough length for intense penetrative action. Add that to the vibrating function and see why most people love them. To be honest, sex toys can do better than human sexual partners in some cases.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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