How to Use a Double Ended Dildo

How to Use a Double Ended Dildo

Most sex toys aren’t really designed for sharing. Let’s face it, having your partner pleasure you with a vibrating dildo doesn’t quite carry the same level of excitement that you get when you’re both turned on at the same time. Double ended dildos are the toys that let you both get your groove on at once. They range from realistic, highly textured dongs to vibrating toys that provide exhilarating sensations. The one thing they all have in common is that they’re designed for two people to enjoy simultaneously. Here are a few suggestions for maximum double ended dildo enjoyment.

Most sex toys aren’t really designed for sharing. Let’s face it, having your partner pleasure you with a vibrating dildo doesn’t quite carry the same level of excitement that you get when you’re both turned on at the same time. Double ended dildos are the toys that let you both get your groove on at once. They range from realistic, highly textured dongs to vibrating toys that provide exhilarating sensations. The one thing they all have in common is that they’re designed for two people to enjoy simultaneously. Here are a few suggestions for maximum double ended dildo enjoyment.

First off, make sure that both ends are well lubricated, especially if you’re going to use them for anal play. Double ended dildos tend to be larger and thicker than most other dongs, so you want to make sure that both you and your partner will enjoy your experience in perfect comfort.

Next, once you’ve both got the double ended dong inserted, try to co-ordinate your movements so that you’re both enjoying a thrusting sensation that’s most likely to get you off. This takes a bit of practice and you’ll need some patience as you try to find a rhythm and a tempo that provides dildo motion that you both find stimulating. If you’ve got a double ended vibrating dildo, the vibrations will provide additional stimulation that will get you hot and bothered even if you haven’t found your perfect rhythm yet. Pay attention to the sensations you’re experiencing and keep in constant communication with your partner while you’re enjoying your double ended dildo.

Explore new forms of dildo play. This might be the perfect time to introduce yourself or your partner to anal penetration. If you take it slow and gentle, using a double ended vibrating dildo can help make your first anal experience exquisitely pleasurable.

Using double ended dildos is all about sharing and reciprocity. Learn the movements that pleasure your partner and yourself, keeping up a dialogue about what you both enjoy the most when you share the dildo. You’re sure to unlock new vistas of sensual excitement.

Anastasia Filipenko

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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