Know What to Expect When Looking for a Sex Toy

Know What to Expect When Looking for a Sex Toy

Have you heard the saying diamonds are a girl’s best friend? Although diamonds are lovely, the last time I checked, they can’t give you an orgasm. Women that continue time after time to have mind-blowing orgasms from their vibrators are sure to say that these toys are their best friends. Many females are stuck with manual masturbation until they are old enough to buy a sex toy. When they come of age, the buying of their first sex toy can become a daunting task.

Even females that think they have a pretty broad education when it comes to all things sex related are most likely to find that when the subject of vibrators or dildos comes up, they don’t know as much as they think they did. The topic of sex toys has always been spoken in hushed tones and if you do hear something, it is only half truths and not enough to let you know anything. The choice of a sex toy is a personal decision and what works for one woman might not work for the other. The subject of sexy lingerie is a lot more openly spoken of, but most people did not grow up hearing of either thing being spoken of in their households. Seriously, how many of your mothers pulled you aside to tell you about a vibrator, a dildo, or what a sex doll was? I know mine didn’t. We live in a different age where sexual gratification is a glorious thing and I for one believe it shouldn’t be hidden. It is a natural, normal, healthy part of life.

I cannot stress this enough. Before you go into a sex store, look online. There are tons of websites that cater to sex toys for women and men. See the differences between the ones for you and the ones for him. Look at the variety of vibrators, dildos, cock rings, and sex dolls. Get a good idea of what is out there before going into a store. A great site to check out is Peaches and Screams. They have the latest sex toys in a wide array of sizes and colors.

Once you make that trip to the store, no matter what you are looking for, they will have a large inventory of various toys and sexy lingerie for role playing. Don’t be surprised if the first vibrator you buy is not what you thought it would be. Trying out different ones is the key to finding what is right for you. The next toy you might want to try is a dildo or maybe you are looking for something to use with you partner like a cock ring. Maybe you will find it sexy to buy a sex doll to surprise your husband with to do a fantasy threesome without having to actually share him. Whatever your preference, experimenting is the best way to find out what will make your toes curl and your eyes roll back.

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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