New Sex Resolutions!

New Sex Resolutions!

Right, lets hope you all went out with a bang last night and are not too hungover this morning! I hope you all found something to do which we suggested in New Years Nudity! Even if this is the dreaded morning after the night before for most of you, I use morning loosely most people I know won’t be up until gone noon, I hope that everyones had a good think about their New Years Resolutions! They’re important of course but today we’re thinking all about sex. So heres a few ideas for your New Sex Resolutions.

If you do anything this year strive to make the bedroom a happier place, make it not just about yourself but about your partner. The whole point of a New Years Resolution is to actually try and stick to it, I know most of us really don’t have the motivation, but you may find that doing one that benefits other people instead of just yourself may help you keep at it. And hey, if you’ve picked a really fun one thats completely personal and only for you, you may find that its easier to stay motivated for it as well. Sex, the best motivation of all in my opinion, if you’re horny enough you’ll do almost anything to get some. So what can you do for yourself or your partner to make the year a lot kinkier? Well, anything and everything!

For one, you can promise to try a new position every day, and in a room other than your bedroom. Just as we mentioned in the Rooms and Positions Series you can get out of the traditional here and start being more adventurous.

Take a leaf out of our book and get into bondage! Bondage is a great beginner way to get into BDSM, and its really fun even if you don’t want to get into the other aspects of it. Try simply tying each other up and have some fun. Hog Tying is my personal favourite, and I think a lot of men would agree with me that its really fun!

Spanks away! Bring out the cards and start the forfeits, make every night a bit of a game and test your limits with some simple sex games.

Go outdoors, okay if you’ve not done this before it maybe better in summer, but aspire to it and you’ll see just how much fun it can be!

Give anal toys a go, they are not as scary as they seem and they can make sex a lot more invigorating. Start small but work your way up to the weird and wonderful.

Whatever you do this year, make it kinky, make it bigger and better than last year. New Year, New You, and damn, you can be so kinky! Tell us your Resolutions today!

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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