New to Anal Sex Toys

New to Anal Sex Toys

Anal Sex is not the taboo subject it once was, now it is not just Homosexual and Bisexual Men that are enjoying it, many women and Heterosexual Men (by means of sex toys) are experiencing the delights that this form of intercourse has to offer.

When you are considering trying anal sex, most people purchase a sex toy specifically for this, and depending on what you are trying to achieve depends on the toy you buy.

Anal Beads

Anal Beads are a very good place to start your anal journeying, comprising several spheres attached to a cord, they are inserted before or during intercourse and slowly or quickly removed. Depending on the Sex Toy Material that you choose will vary the firmness of the balls, and will change the experience that you have. For beginners, using softer jelly or other rubber balls will make the experience easier, and by far the greatest way to enjoy anal beads is to have them removed at the point of orgasm – whether you are male or female, the removal at the climax will intensify your orgasm exponentially. The Anal Bead string should be left exposed from the anus, this is there for removal and also ensures you cannot penetrate so deeply that they become lodged inside.

Anal Dildos

Anal Dildos are unlike normal dildos as they are specifically designed for Anal use. They typically offer a thinner shaft, that can be tapered so that the entry is easy and the further you insert, the greater the internal feeling of fullness. If you want to start trying anal sex for real, using an anal dildo is a great way to decide whether it is for you or not, as they can be used to simulate the real thing. There are now more and more Anal toys on the market that are designed to resemble the real thing, in look and feel, and as a beginner you should select an initial diameter of about 25mm. Beginners should look for Anal Dildos that have a wide base, this is important for easy retrieval. Anal Dildos come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, from parallel to tapered, to ribbed and textured. Ribbing and Texture provides greater sensations than smooth, and heavy ribbing has the same effect as Anal Beads if removed at the point of climax.

Butt Plugs

Once inserted, a Butt Plug is designed to be held in place by the anal muscles. A huge range of shapes and sizes are available and for beginners the shorter, smaller diameter toys should be selected and then graduate up to the larger sizes as your body and mind get used to the experience. The Butt Plug has a similar effect as the Anal Beads when removed, with several different major and minor diameters, users experience changing sensations as the rectal opening expands and contracts. Because the Butt Plug is designed to stay in place, it can be inserted and enjoyed hands free by either or both parties during sex.

Vibrating Anal Toys

We carry a wide range of vibrating anal toys, including Vibrating Anal Beads, Vibrating Anal Dildos and Vibrating Butt Plugs. They all act in the same way as their non-vibrating counterparts, with the added advantage of internal stimulation without physical movement – this is particularly pleasurable in the case of Anal Beads where the greatest satisfaction is on removal, with Vibrating Anal Beads you can enjoy the satisfaction throughout the experience.

When you have decided on your anal sex toy you need to choose an anal lubricant that is right for the toy. For anal sex, silicone lubricants are recommended, they stay slippy for longer and don’t go tacky, but silicone lubricants are not suitable for toys that are made from a silicone material, so for silicone toys you should select a water-based lube.

Anastasia Filipenko

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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