Practical Tips for Using a Strap On

Practical Tips for Using a Strap On

You can have a lot of fun with the strap on and readily set your fantasy free when it comes to using this fabulous sex toy.

It is however natural for their to be a period of adjustment when using a new sex toy, particularly with your partner.

Not everyone is incredibly fond of experimenting. Thus it is a good idea to consider some advice on how to get things going and to have fun safely.

Strap On: Tips for Greater Pleasure

You need to use a lubricant with all sex toys including the strap on dildo. This is particularly important in the case of anal penetration.

There are two main types of personal lubricants to use – water-based and silicon-based ones. The latter are often preferred for anal play as they do not get absorbed by the body and last for longer.

You may want to get a lubricant which is especially made to offer additional stimulation. This will help with relaxing and getting more pleasure.

Both partners should be relaxed and foreplay can help with this. This way both partners enjoy the experience. Also, remember that it is essential for the two partners to be on the same wavelength.

It is best to take things slowly and gently so that both partners can enjoy maximum pleasure. If you are the strap on wearer, you can readily try various techniques for giving pleasure to your partner.

Just make sure that he or she is comfortable with what you are doing.

Strap On: Safety Tips

During play, it is important to use the strap on dildo for either vaginal or anal penetration and not for both during one and the same play. This is an essential safety tip that some couples may ignore if they get carried away in their play.

You can readily use two dildos for each purpose. This is a very good idea because you can experiment with various models in different shapes and sizes. If you are using a double dildo, you should ensure that none of the two parts is used for both vaginal and anal sex.

Try to keep an eye on how each is used to ensure safety. Also be sure to thoroughly clean the strap on dildo and harness after each use as recommended by the manufacturer.

During the next session, you can use the sex toy or toys which you have in a different way. As long as there is no mixing, you will enjoy great pleasure absolutely safely.

Barbara Santini

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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