Punching Above Your Weight' In A Relationship

Punching above your weight in a relationship refers to mismatched attractiveness between you and your boo. The phrase “punch above your weight” stems from the boxing world. It was first used in the 1930s to describe boxing matches where one contestant seemed way more powerful than the other. Soon, the phrase found its way to the dating landscape, meaning one partner is better-looking than the other.

Why Are People So Fascinated by Perceived ‘Imbalances’ In Attractiveness in A Couple

As a qualified psychologist, I think it is because of insecurities. Good-looking people get a lot of attention. When you walk with them, you might wonder why they are with you when they can easily find another partner. A good-looking partner might be treating you right. However, you are likely to feel insecure.

Can Being Preoccupied with This Have a Detrimental Impact on Relationships / Dating Life?

When you are insecure, your happiness and relationship satisfaction levels might drop. You develop feelings of inadequacy, making it difficult for you to engage in or maintain relationships in the future.

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Anastasia Filipenko

Psychologist, Freelance writer and Commercial Adviser at shopgiejo.com

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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