SEXUAL HEALTH AND SEX TOYS

SEXUAL HEALTH AND SEX TOYS

 1. How does someone find the right sex toy for them/which toys are right for someone’s body?

Choosing a sex toy goes with someone’s age, body type, and ability. For instance, if you are female, perhaps anal or clitoral stimulation is your drive to sex toys. Therefore, buy something that adheres to your sexual needs because you understand your body better. Women can also buy toys for inserting. Conversely, men with penises require a toy that surround the penis, including rings and sleeves. If it is the nipple or perineum, the same applies- it all relies on the stimulation type desired.

2. What are the best practices for using and storing sex toys?

Always store when dry

Storing a wet or damp sex toy only creates room for bacterial growth that may cause infections in your next use. It also increases chances of breakage. I always recommend ensuring 100% dryness before storage, and do not forget to clean again before your next usage to wipe out any bacteria that may stick on it.

Check the toy before and after use

Inspecting your toy helps confirm it is free from possible danger. Check out for discoloration, warping, and deterioration, which could be symbols of breaking down. If it is waterproof, make sure its seal is intact and never store sex toys with batteries, remove them.

4. What are the benefits of using sex toys? i.e. for solo and couples

Sex toys help couples boost their sexual performance and can address lethargy. They can incorporate a different adventure and give fun as couples increase their intimacy. Even other sex toy accessories, including lubricants can sort issues that arise, such as, reducing dryness during sex. Singles can also have fun regardless of why they lack a partner. Furthermore, they can understand their bodies better for more improvement when with a partner.

 5. How does someone start to use sex toys?

If you are looking to start using sex toys, I always recommend finding out more about them. Understand how to use them and determine ones that will accomplish your desires. Once that is clear, buy one and experiment with yourself. If you are introducing to your partner, please avoid popping them out during that heated moment. It may be a turn off, especially if they dislike surprises. I recommend talking about it in advance to hear their opinion, which will help determine whether to get a toy or not.

6. Can you get an STI from a sex toy? Thanks!

Of course, yes. It happens mostly to individuals who share toys without using safety measures like using a condom.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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