Sexy Games for Getting into the Mood at Swingers' Parties

Sexy Games for Getting into the Mood at Swingers’ Parties

Many couples try out swinging or partner swapping for the sake of adding a little extra zing to their sex lives. It’s not only the gay community where some couples find that open relationships work well for sustaining mutual sexual interest. Swingers’ parties let couples experiment in a comfortable environment where full transparency means that each party knows what his or her significant other will be doing, and who he or she will be doing it with. First timers might be a little nervous, but adult board and other games provide a great way to break the ice and get in the mood for some wild fun.

Having a tipple is the easiest way to loosen up and be in the moment, and a board game which combines sexy challenges with a classic drinking game is perfect for an evening of raunchy fun. Watch everyone’s inhibitions disappear as they remove clothing and get into the swing of a strictly for adults game that has daring challenges.

Teenagers who are busy discovering their sexuality play strip poker but it is also a sexy option for couples’ partner swapping occasions. A complete poker set which includes fake banknotes can be used to play a different kind of game instead of chips players might agree to remove an item of clothing for each hand lost, and the winning player trades in cash for a kiss, a massage, or a more risqué favour. You’ll have to practice your poker face in advance, unless you want to be the first to wind up in your birthday suit!

If you get together with other couples for a games night, make sure everyone is committed to the activities planned. That way no one will go off in a huff when it gets down to the sexy part of the evening. Some couples decide to allow penetrative sex between members of the group, which insiders call a ‘full swap’, while others decide that there will only be a ‘soft swap’, involving non penetrative sex. Whatever your group decides on, stocking up on raunchy and exciting games is a good idea.

Julia Davis

Mental health expert
MS, University of Latvia

I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.

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