Should I Have a Threesome?

Should I Have a Threesome?

Dear Martina

My husband has admitted he loves fantasising about me with other men. We’ve been married quite a while and I must admit this turns me on. Now he’s asked if I’ll have a threesome with him and a friend we know. Of course I love the idea but I’m worried about the repercussions. Should I say yes?

Dear Lucky Bitch

Of course you should say yes. Can you imagine a man turning down this opportunity if their wife suggested an extra head in bed? If you fancy the extra man in question this could be a great way to spice up your sex life. Just consider a few things beforehand. Does your husband want to have sex with the man too? This could make it unpleasant for you. Would you be gutted if you lost the guys friendship? Would you be ok if half way through your husband changed his mind?

Julia Davis

Mental health expert
MS, University of Latvia

I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.

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