Straight Man Wanting Anal Sex

Straight Man Wanting Anal Sex

I’m a straight man in a relationship. I want to try out anal sex with my girlfriend using dildos or butt plugs on me. Is it normal for a straight man to want anal sex? If it is, what’s the best anal sex toy to use?

G

Hi G,

There is nothing unusual about a heterosexual man wanting to experiment with anal sex. It doesn’t mean that you have gay tendencies. Pleasuring the prostate gland (located within the anus) can provide you with explosive orgasms. If this is your first time trying out anal sex, remember to start off with something small. An anal training kit that contains differently sized butt plugs means you can begin with the smallest one first then progress to the larger ones when you feel more comfortable. Also remember to apply plenty of anal lubricant.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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