According to research 75% of women do not reach orgasms during intercourse alone. Further to that 10 to 15% of women never climax at all! That is where sex toys come in. They make having an orgasm easy even for women who have never experienced one before. I’d highly recommend a toy that is designed for g-spot and/or clitoral stimulation to start with. These toys really hit the spot and can make having an orgasm easy. You can use sex toys as part of your partnered sex play or alone.
It’s incredibly important to get to know your own body because if you don’t know what you like sexually then how can you expect your partner to? By knowing and understanding your own body you can effectively communicate your needs and desires to your partner. Make time for masturbation and discover what feels good and what doesn’t.
One of the best positions for a person with a vagina, g-spot and clitoris is when they are on top. Get your partner to lie down flat on their back on the bed or floor and then lower yourself onto them. Either bend your knees so you’re in a squatting position or lay your legs out flat alongside your partners. Either way you need to lean forward so that your clitoris can rub against your partner’s body. Continue with this rubbing motion and you’ll likely achieve a clitoral orgasm sometimes a g-spot one as well. Another great position for achieving orgasm is doggy style. Bend over on your knees and get your partner to enter you from behind. You can then use a free hand to stimulate your clitoris or get your partner to do it.