What Is Fisting?

Fisting describes penetrating your partner or sexual partner vaginally or anally using your hand. While this may sound intense, patience, a lot of practice, good communication, lakes of lube, and of course, trust can make your darling enjoy the sexual practice.

How To Do It Safely

Talk About It Beforehand

The first step in fisting safely is to talk about it with your partner. This ensures you are both on the same page about the new sexual activity you want to add to your sexual routine.

Warm Up

Warming up is simply preparing for the big event. It includes kissing, touching, massaging, and eating each other out. Warming up makes the receiving partner more aroused and relaxed, increasing the chances of mind-blowing orgasms.

Use Lakes of Lube

After warming up, you may want to use a lot of personal lubricant or lube to penetrate the vagina or anus easily. Plus, lube can add pleasure to fisting. As a sex expert, I strongly recommend silicone-based lube because it is thicker. Due to this, you may not need to reapply it frequently.

Wear Latex Gloves

Latex gloves can further make penetration easier. Plus, they reduce the risk of infections.

Start With One Finger

Because inserting all the fingers into the vagina or anus once can be painful, you may really want to start with one finger. If the receiving partner feels great, add more until they are all into their vagina or anus. All fingers should form a duck’s beak.

Insert The Knuckles and the Wrist

If the receiving partner enjoys the act, you may want to take things further by inserting your knuckles and then the wrist. From there, you can start thrusting your hand into and outside your partner. You can alsoturn your hand to increase stimulation or use your knuckles to stimulate the G spot.

Keep The Communications Channel Open

Communication is important before and during the act. When the communication channels are open, you are more likely to know when the receiving partner is no longer feeling your magic hand and stop the act immediately.