People who become rich want more money. People in power want to be more powerful. Why is that? Are we inherently greedy? Or is there a switch that flips along the way as we go through life?

The reasons could be;

An increase in income pushes for a greater standard of living

Have you ever noticed how people struggle to get more despite having a lot of wealth, face, or money? Do you know the reason? Well, it is because most people go after things they think are pleasurable, only to get there and notice these things are not the actual secrets to pleasure or happiness.

Most people chase the wrong things

The society has painted a few things that bring the thought of happiness, including money, family, or wealth. But they are not true. The best advice is to disregard them. I always tell my clients to mainly chase energy, health, and alertness as among the factors that bring happiness. Also, practice good self-care tips, sleep enough, and eat well.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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