You're Never Too Old to Enjoy Sex Toys

You’re Never Too Old to Enjoy Sex Toys

There may come a time that you reach an age where you can no longer enjoy physical activities that take place in public view such as jogging, cycling or even walking for more than ten minutes. This does not signify that you’re past it in the bedroom department! Sex toys can really enhance your sex life well into pensionable age and beyond so there is no need to worry. There are so many adult toys around that even if your interest in sex is beginning to wane or you do have difficulties in this area then there should be a sex toy on the market to help increase your sex drive or give you more confidence in the bedroom.

If you face mobility problems in everyday life, they should not be a factor in the bedroom when using adult toys such as vibrators or dildos. By using products such as these, you don’t have to make a great deal of movement because the adult product does most of the work for you. All you really have to do is move it up and down at a pace that suits you, and in the case of vibrators, adjust the speed to one that you feel comfortable with. Adult toys can therefore lead to just as much enjoyable sex without overworking the limbs if you find this difficult. Sex toys aren’t just for solo use either – hand them over to your partner and allow them to take control and pleasure you.

If you still like to have intercourse, using adult products such as cock rings can really help the male partner to sustain a harder, fuller and thicker erection for longer. This is because the cock ring (placed onto the erect manhood) constricts the blood flow to the male genitals therefore making the hardness last for longer which is beneficial to both partners. Some cock rings also come with nodules on the outside which are designed to pleasure the woman’s clitoris during intercourse. Further to that, there are a number of cock rings available that come with the added bonus of having vibrations built in which adds to the excitement created by both sexual partners.

If you have come to the stage where you find sex more of a chore than a pleasure, there are a number of sex enhancers in the form of food supplement tablets and liquids, or creams and gels that are formed especially for men or women or both to enhance libido, and make for more stimulating sex and better orgasms. Applying heating or cooling lubricants to the genitalia can also help men or women to achieve better, more stimulating sex.

There are also a number of adult toys that can help men who are suffering from erectile dysfunction. Hollow strap ons are a great way for men to keep sexually active even in the event of being unable to attain or sustain an erection. Hollow strap on dildos are fully elasticated or come with adjustable straps making them the ideal sex aid for the majority of men who suffer from erectile dysfunction. The dildos range in size, usually from 6-10 inches in length, and come with a wide enough recess to comfortably fit any width of flaccid penis. These dildos are also firm enough to satisfy the other partner when penetrated. Vibrating strap on dildos are also available, which usually come with a variety of different speed settings.

If you do not have a partner, there are also plenty of ways that you can attain sexual satisfaction. The most popular type of sex toy for women is the rabbit vibrator which was first made famous in the late 1990s by the American TV series Sex and the City. This type of vibrator doesn’t just come with a shaft for penetration but also features a clitoral stimulator (usually in the form of a rabbit) which arouses the clitoris as the shaft pleasures the inner walls of the vagina. For men, the most popular type of adult sex toy is a male masturbator, which normally comes in the form of a sleeve or a single ended tube. The inside of the masturbator usually comes with some form of stimulating nodules, and in the case of the tube style masturbators, the opening (normally in the form of a vagina, mouth or anus, or plain) leads onto an inner chamber that replicates the tightness of a real woman.

If you would like to try an adult toy but don’t want to go into a physical shop then you can always order online. You don’t even have to worry about it arriving in the post because all items are sent out in plain packaging so no one will even know what you’ve ordered.

Anastasia Filipenko

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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