Abanikela Ngesidoda Kwabashadile Bobulili Obufanayo: Ayini Amalungelo Akho?

Ukunikela ngesidoda kungaba indlela yokuzidela yokusiza umbhangqwana ongenabantwana ukuthi ufinyelele amaphupho awo - kodwa futhi kungaba iphupho elibi ngokomthetho njengoba sesibonile kulezi zinyanga ezisanda kwedlula ezindabeni. UMassimiliano Gerina, umlungisi wezinwele oyisitabane, wanikela ngesidoda sakhe kubabhangqwana abathandana nabobulili obubodwa eminyakeni emithathu edlule. Wayefuna ukuba ubaba, hhayi nje ukunikela - futhi lokhu kwakubonakala kulithanda ithuba elihle.

Izinkulungwane zamaRandi ezinkokhelweni zomthetho kanye neminyaka kamuva, laba abathathu ekugcineni bafinyelela esivumelwaneni esifanelana nabo bonke abazali abathathu. Indodakazi kaGerina u-Emma manje usenomama ababili nobaba, futhi isitifiketi sakhe sokuzalwa siwubufakazi balokho. UGerina uphinde avakashelwe masonto onke nendodakazi yakhe, kodwa omama baka-Emma bangababheki bakhe abasemthethweni nabanakekeli bakhe.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokunikela ngesidoda - ngisho nakumngani - kubalulekile ukwazi amalungelo akho. U-Jonathan West, inhloko yomthetho womndeni kwa-Prolegal, uphikisa ngokuthi uma ucabangela ukunikela ngesidoda (kungaba njengomamukeli, noma onikelayo), kubalulekile ukuthi ube nezivumelwano zangasese ezikhona ngokugunyazwa ngokomthetho ngaphambi kokuthi uqale.

“Ukuze kucace,” kuphawula uWest, “abanikelayo abanikela ngomtholampilo onelayisensi ye-HFEA abanawo amalungelo angokomthetho noma ezezimali, noma imithwalo yemfanelo yanoma iyiphi ingane ekhulwe ngesidoda sayo.” Lokho kungenxa yokuthi kunesivumelwano senkontileka esilawula ukulinganiselwa kwamalungelo omnikeli. Nokho, kunokudideka okuthile lapho umngane noma umuntu amaziyo enikela ngesidoda ngaphandle kwale mitholampilo - njengoGerina.

NgoJanuwari, kwaphasiswa Isinqumo Senkantolo Ephakeme manje esinikeza amalungelo kubaxhasi besilisa abangathanda ukuthi abanye basho ekukhuliseni izingane zabo zemvelo uma kungekho sivumelwano senkontileka esikhona. Lokho kusho ukuthi uma indoda enjengoGerina inikela ngesidoda sayo kongqingili noma abathandana nabobulili obuhlukile, inelungelo lokusho okuthile ngekusasa lomntanayo.

"Ukunikela ngesidoda, kungaba ongqingili noma abashadikazi abaqondile, akufanele kuthathwe kalula njengoba imiphumela ihlala impilo yabo bonke abahilelekile." U-West wabhala. “Kubalulekile ukuthi zonke izinhlangothi zivumelane ngokuthi uhlelo lumi kanjani. Ukuba umnikeli kungaba okuvuza kakhulu, kodwa kuphela uma kunesivumelwano esimisiwe nesiqinile ngokomthetho sokuvikela bonke abahilelekile.”

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