Phezulu nePhansi amagama asetshenziswa kakhulu ngaphakathi kwe-BDSM futhi sithinte isihloko kakhulu kuma-athikili e-BDSM esizenzile. Manje sizokhuluma ngakho kancane ngaphandle kweminye imisebenzi ye-BDSM. Ukuze uqale, Phezulu nangaphansi kuhlanganisa izinto ezahlukene kubantu abahlukene, nokho-ke sizokumboza kakhulu ngomqondo we-BDSM ngakho-ke lokhu kungase kube kancane uma ufunde ezinye izinto.
I-Top ku-BDSM ngumuntu obamba iqhaza elikhulu ekubhaxabuleni, ekubopheni njll. Lena yindlela i-Top evame ukuhlotshaniswa ngayo nokuba nguDominant njengoba uthatha indima enkulu emsebenzini. Kodwa-ke ungayala isigqila ukuthi senze izinto ezithile ezibusayo njengokubhaxabula, ngakho-ke uzenze zibe Phezulu, kodwa zingabi yi-Dominant njengoba zingaphansi kwe-oda. Enye indlela i-Top ekhona ngayo ku-BDSM umuntu owenza okuningi okuthokozisayo, ngakho-ke Ukuzithoba kungaba intokozo enkulu futhi ibe Phezulu, kulokhu. I-A Bottom iphambene ngempela nalokhu. Ngakho-ke lowo uboshelwe kakhulu, nalowo othola injabulo.
Ngakho lokho wukuthi Phezulu naPhansi ngamafuphi, futhi Ama-Dominants amaningi kanye Nokuzithoba kufanelana nezitayela ze-Top and Bottom kalula. Enye inketho i-Shintsha, okuwumuntu othanda ukushintsha phakathi kwalokhu kokubili, ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi ukuba Phezulu kwesinye isikhathi Ngezansi, kodwa lena ibonakala ngempela ixhumene ne-Dominant and Submissive.
Indawo ongaqala kuyo ukuxoxa ngayo, uxoxe nophathina wakho futhi ubone ukuthi yini ayithakasela kakhulu. Eqinisweni ngeke kube lula uma bengenasithakazelo nhlobo odabeni kodwa lena yindlela enhle yokukhipha yonke into odabeni. vula ngalokho ofuna ukukuzama.
Pho uma seniyikhulumile niyixoxile nobabili nifuna ukuyilungisa yini ngokulandelayo? Nokho, uma kungekho kubonakala kunokuncamelayo ukuzama kuqala, phendula uhlamvu lwemali, bese usuka lapho. Ngaleyo ndlela inhlanhla yayo ephelele ngubani owenza lokho kuqala.
Ngakho yini okufanele uyenze kuqala? Nokho into elula ukuyenza ukuhamba nemibono ye-BDSM ejabulisayo nelula, njengobugqila obumnene. Ngakho-ke i-Top ijabulisa i-Bottom kakhulu, bese i-Top ibophe i-Bottom futhi ibajabulise futhi. Bese uhlehlisa izindima uphinde uzame futhi ukusuka kwelinye iphuzu lokubuka. Manje lokhu akuyona into engingacebisa ngayo ukuthi nginqume ngobusuku obubodwa, ungagcini nje ukwenza uhlangothi ngalunye futhi kube ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ukhethani. Ungase ukwazi ukuthi yini okhetha ukuyenza kanye nje, kodwa umlingani wakho angase angakwenzi izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi abe nomuzwa wangempela wezinhlangothi zombili. Ngaleyo ndlela ungakwazi ukuthola ukuthi wena nozakwenu ningabaphezulu, ningabaphansi, noma ningama-Switch.
Ngikholwa ukuthi isayensi yezokudla iwumsizi omuhle kakhulu wokuthuthukisa impilo nokwelashwa okungeziwe ekwelashweni. Umgomo wami uwukusiza abantu ukuba bathuthukise impilo yabo nokuphila kahle ngaphandle kokuzihlukumeza ngemikhawulo yokudla engadingekile. Ngingumsekeli wempilo enempilo - ngidlala ezemidlalo, ngibhayisikili, futhi ngibhukuda echibini unyaka wonke. Ngomsebenzi wami, ngivezwe kuVice, Country Living, Harrods magazine, Daily Telegraph, Grazia, Women's Health, kanye neminye imithombo yezindaba.
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