I-Rose Petal Beach yenza Abesifazane Babuze Umshado wabo

I-Rose Petal Beach yenza Abesifazane Babuze Umshado wabo

Emasontweni amaningi ngizokwazisa ngezincwadi zakamuva ezithengwa kakhulu ezikhuluma ngobudlelwano nezocansi futhi kuleli sonto alihlukile njengoba esincomweni somngane ngike ngathatha “I-Rose Petal Beach” futhi ngazithola ngithatheka zisuka nje. Lokhu kungenxa yezizathu eziningi, kodwa eziningi zazo zigxile ekuhloleni ubulili, njengoba umlingiswa oyinhloko ethola ukuthi umyeni wakhe akagcini nje ngokujabulela izithombe ezingcolile kodwa uthanda izithombe zobulili ezingcolile lapho owesifazane edlwengulwa khona.

Ukufunda Okungakhululekile

Kulandela lapho ukuthi umngane wakhe omkhulu emsola ngokunukubeza ngokocansi bese kuthi-ke umlingisi ophambili, uTami, abe nesikhathi esinzima sokuzama ukunquma ukuthi akholelwe bani. Ngeke ngimoshe indaba kulabo abathanda ukuyifunda, kodwa xwayiswa ukuthi ingase igqamise izinkinga ezithile ebudlelwaneni bakho.

Kwangithinta inhliziyo, njengoba manje ngisemshadweni wami wesibili. Eyami yokuqala ngokusobala yayilahlwe kwasekuqaleni ngoba ngangazi ukuthi wayenokuthambekela kwezenhlalo, ukuluthwa ucansi kanye nesidingo sokukhulekelwa kweqhawe kusukela ekuqaleni, nokho ngakhetha ukukushaya indiva njengoba ngangikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi singakwenza kusebenze. Ngemva kweminyaka embalwa yezingxabano ezinomsindo kodwa ezinogqozi, nezambulo ezishaqisayo mayelana nezindaba zakhe zomshado owengeziwe ngagcina ngiyekile futhi ngakubiza ngokuthi usuku. Ngavele ngakhathala.

Kodwa-ke, akugcinanga lapho, waphikisana nesehlukaniso ngenkolelo exakile yokuthi sizobuyelana (nakuba unkosikazi wakhe wayekhulelwe ingane yakhe) wabe esesebenzisa izingane ukuze azame ukuxhumana naye izinyanga eziyishumi nesishiyagalombili. Ngenhlanhla baphunyule bengenamyocu futhi banyamalala emkhathini nomndeni wakhe omusha esebonile ukuthi kulokhu ngeke ngikwamukele ukuxolisa.

Ngakho-ke ngiyakwazi ukuhambisana nayo yonke imizwa uTami ayikhuthazelelayo njengoba ethola ukuthi umyeni wakhe uyisazi sezenhlalo, kodwa okungikhathazayo ukuthi useshade iminyaka eyishumi nambili futhi akakaze nakanye abe nokusola.

Eqinisweni umshado wakhe uzwakala njengowesibili wami, njengoba ashada nomngane wakhe omkhulu esikoleni - SNAP, umyeni wakhe akabuki izithombe zobulili ezingcolile - SNAP (Ngiyazi ukuthi akukho lutho olungalungile nge-porn, empeleni lungasiza ubuhlobo kodwa ngemva kokushada. kumlutha wocansi kuyimpumuzo ukungawatholi omagazini nama-DVD agxishwe phansi osofa nomatilasi - kumnandi nokusebenza kukhompyutha ngaphandle kwegciwane elivela endaweni engcolile!) , usebenza ekhaya -SNAP, ayathinta futhi asenayo impilo yocansi esebenzayo naphezu kobude bobudlelwane babo-SNAP. Ngakho-ke ungacabanga ukumangala kwami ​​lapho kubekwa lo mshado ocishe uphelele futhi ngavuma ngekhanda indlela yami yokucabanga, yebo yithi, mhlawumbe isidina kwabanye kodwa sivumelana futhi sinothando kancane, bese kuthi-ke, umyeni wakhe ungumhlukumezi ngokocansi. yohlobo olubi kakhulu.

Ngokusobala ngabuza umyeni wami futhi ngazibuza ukuthi wayefana nje neyami yokuqala kodwa ene-IQ ephakeme eyamsiza ukuba ayifihle kangcono. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngeke ngibe ngedwa njengoba le ncwadi manje isibalwa nezihamba phambili eziyishumi ezithengiswa kakhulu, ngakho njengoba nje ama-shades angu-50 eGrey ashukumisela amakhosikazi yonke indawo ukuba akhiphe ubugqila, lokhu kuzosenza singabaze ukuba khona kwethu okuncane.

Ingabe Uzakwenu unguDeveli Ozifihlayo?
Usho kanjani-ke ukuthi umlingani wakho empeleni ungusathane ozifihlile? Isinyathelo sokuqala siwukwethembeka ngokuphelele kuwe ngokwakho. Ingabe akhona ama-niggles ozama ukuwashaya indiva njengoba ebonakala ewubulima? Ngabe unazo izinsolo osuzingcwabe ekujuleni njengoba wesaba ukubhekana nazo? Noma umethemba umlingani wakho ngo-100%?

Uma unezinsolo lokhu kungase kube ukungazethembi kwakho noma kungase kube khona okuthile lapho, ngakho phenya ujule. Ingabe iphasiwedi yakhe yekhompyutha ivikelwe? Angavele alunikeze ucingo lwakhe uma udinga ukubhalela umama wakho umyalezo? Ungakwazi yini ukuphendula izingcingo zakhe ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokuthi ubani ongaphesheya?

Bese kuba nezenzo, uyakwenza yini ukuthi alale kade kunawe noma wazi ukuthi ukhathele kakhulu? Ingabe uhlala sekwephuzile emsebenzini noma uya ezindaweni ongakaze uye kuzo? Ingabe uyaziwasha izingubo zakhe lapho ebuya ngemva kwesikhathi noma azifihle ngemuva kwe-wardrobe?

Naphezu kwe-Rose Petal Beach ekhathaza abesifazane kulo lonke elase-UK, ozakwethu bayasola uma kukhona okushaya amanzi. Ngikholelwa kakhulu ukuthi akekho umuntu ongaba nomshado iminyaka engaphezu kweshumi ngaphandle kokusola. Ngakho-ke uma umethemba umlingani wakho ngo-100% futhi ujabulile ngalokho onakho, kwamukele futhi uthathe ikhophi ye-Rose Petal Beach ukuze uzikhumbuze ukuthi muhle kangakanani umshado wakho!

Isazi sokudla
MS, Lund University, Sweden

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