Mhlawumbe uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngempela ufuna indoda empilweni yakho ukuba ucansi ngezikhathi futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho. Singabantu ucansi futhi ukuthola umuntu ukwanelisa leso sidingo mkhulu futhi abaningi bethu kufanele nje ukwenza lokho esikhundleni kokuba bonke hung up ekubeni ukuthola ubuhlobo eside.
Kodwa kubantu besifazane abaningi, ngisho noma becabanga ukuthi bafuna nje ukuba nobuhlobo bobulili kuphela obungashintsha ngemva kwesikhashana futhi babone ukuthi ucansi alwanele. Thina njengabantu besifazane singajabula ngokushintshashintsha okungavamile ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa kwabaningi bethu, lokho ngokuvamile ngeke kusenze sijabule ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Abaningi bethu bafisa ukusondelana okwengeziwe nazo zonke ezinye izinto ezingase zihambisane nezinga lokuhlangana ngokocansi. Impela i-romp enhle imnandi, kepha uma sekufika kuyo, ngemuva kokuthi i-romp isiphelile ingabe sifuna ukumkhipha embhedeni (kahle kwesinye isikhathi siyakwenza) noma sifuna ukulala sigone futhi bese uthola ukudla kwasekuseni embhedeni?
Futhi kunoma ibuphi ubudlelwano, ubulili bungama ngakho-ke uma ukulokho kuphela, khona-ke ngokuzumayo ubuhlobo bufile futhi sibuyele lapho saqala khona. Kodwa uma unezinye izinto eziningi enizenzayo nendoda yakho futhi ninezinto eziningi enizithakaselayo futhi nithanda ukuba nihlanganyele ndawonye kungakhathaliseki ukuthi nihamba izintaba, ukugijima, ukuya kumamuvi nanoma yini, ngokuvamile ungakwazi ukuphatha ukugibela owomile. iziphonso.
Ngakho nakuba singase sicabange ukuthi ubulili ukuphela kokuba konke, uma kuziwa phansi, iningi lethu okungenani izikhathi ezimbalwa ezimpilweni zethu, bafuna okwengeziwe yilokho kuphela okukhona kukho. Ukuba nomuntu esizofika kuye ekhaya ekupheleni kosuku, ozolahla izinkinga zethu kuye, athole usizo lokuhlikihlwa emhlane, noma ngisho nokusenzela isidlo sakusihlwa kungase kube njengokuthumela unkulunkulu lapho lezo zinsuku zisihlulile.
Ukuba nobungane nobungane beqiniso, kanye nobulili obuhle kwenza konke ndawonye kube iphakheji okunzima ukulihlula. Futhi futhi ihamba ngazo zombili. Ngokwemvelo singabahlengikazi ngakho-ke uma sinothile esingamnaka, simnakekele, simenzele isidlo sakusihlwa, nathi singazizwa sigcwaliseka kakhulu.
Kodwa kufanele kube nezinhlangothi ezimbili - bobabili abantu kufanele bafune izinto ezifanayo ingxenye enkulu. Futhi uma usothandweni lapho konke akufunayo kuwucansi futhi uzithola usufuna okwengeziwe, sekuyisikhathi sokuphinda kuxoxiswane.
Futhi uma eqinile esimeni sakhe futhi ubelokhu ecacile ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ufuna ukuphuma ebudlelwaneni futhi awusajabule, cishe sekuyisikhathi sokugqashula izibopho futhi uyofuna omunye umuntu. Alikho ihlazo kulokho, usanda kushintsha izimfuno zakho futhi kulungile.
Zigcine ujabule futhi uzokwazi ukugcina abanye bejabule - lokho kuyinto engcono kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu ohilelekile.
Ungoti wokulala
Ngisebenzisa ulwazi oluzuziwe lwezemfundo nobuchwepheshe, ngeluleka iziguli ezinezikhalo ezihlukahlukene mayelana nempilo yengqondo - isimo sengqondo esicindezelekile, uvalo, ukungabi namandla nesithakazelo, ukuphazamiseka kokulala, ukuhlaselwa ukwesaba, imicabango ecindezelayo nokukhathazeka, ubunzima bokugxila, nokucindezeleka. Ngesikhathi sami sokuphumula, ngithanda ukupenda futhi ngihambe ngezinyawo ezinde ogwini lolwandle. Enye yezinto ezingikhathazayo zakamuva yi-sudoku - umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokuthulisa umqondo ongakhululekile.
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