Usizo lwabangenalwazi: Amadoda Athenga Izingubo zangaphansi

Usizo lwabangenalwazi: Amadoda Athenga Izingubo zangaphansi

Kulungile madoda, ake sibone ukuphambana kwezandla lapha: bangaki kini abathenge izingubo zangaphansi zothando lwentokazi yenu nize nimthole ekhala kanti nina nisendlini yezinja? Kunabafana abaningi ezicathulweni zakho engiqinisekile ukuthi bangathanda ukukuboleka indlebe ezwelayo. Eqinisweni, ungase uqale iklabhu yakho: Amadoda Aphikisana Nezingubo Zangaphansi Ezingafanele. Nokho, izingubo zangaphansi ziyisipho esihle sanoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane (ikakhulukazi lowo osondelene naye futhi onethuba elihle lokubonana eduze mathupha), ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuba ubhale yonke ingxenye yezingubo zokugqoka, kufanele ucabangele lawa macebiso ukuze wenze ukuthenga uhambo lula.

Okokuqala, yazi usayizi wowesifazane wakho. Lena inkinga ejwayeleke kakhulu ngezingubo zangaphansi ezingafanele futhi ingathumela ngisho nabesifazane abaqine kakhulu ukuthi babe nezinyembezi. Uma uthenga izingubo zakhe zangaphansi eziwusayizi omncane kakhulu, uzozwa isikhalo sokuthi “Ngikhuluphele angikwazi nokungena kule ngubo yangaphansi,” okuvame ukuhambisana nezinyembezi. Ohlangothini oluphendukile lohlamvu lwemali, ukuthenga izingubo zangaphansi ezinkulu kakhulu ngokuvamile kufika nokukhala kokuthi “Ucabanga ukuthi ngikhuluphele kangakanani ngempela?” Noma iyiphi indawo ayikhululekile futhi ingakubeka ubusuku obunye noma obubili kusofa. Uyakhumbula ukuthi bathini ngezinhloso ezinhle, akunjalo? I-Lingerie iyinkimbinkimbi ngoba awudingi nje usayizi womzimba kuphela, kodwa futhi nosayizi wenkomishi. Indlela evamile yokuthola usayizi wendebe yothandekayo wakho ukuthatha ukuqagela bese ukhetha usayizi olandelayo phansi. Kodwa-ke, yazi usayizi wowesifazane wakho. Cacisa ekhabetheni lakhe (yize ungase uzithole usesimweni esibucayi lapho ekubamba washona ngendololwane ekhabetheni lakhe lezingubo zangaphansi), buza abangani bakhe, noma vele umbuze ngokungananazi—uzojabula ngokuthi ukwenzile.

Okwesibili, yazi ukunambitheka kowesifazane wakho. Ukuthi ufuna ukumbona egqoke umfaniswano womhlengikazi ogangile akusho ukuthi uzocabangela isipho sakho njengesicabangelayo futhi esizwelayo (ngaphandle uma kunjalo, unenhlanhla enkulu yokuba nobudlelwane “nalolo hlobo lwentombazane”). Uzothola ukukhethwa okuthandekayo kumbala ayintandokazi yakhe kokubili kwezothando kanye nokucabangelayo, ngakho-ke cabanga ukukhetha okuthile okuphansi kancane, ikakhulukazi uma lokhu kuwukuthenga kwakho kokuqala kwezingubo zangaphansi. Uma ukuthengwa kokuqala kuhamba kahle, ngakho-ke, kufanele uhambe nge-hog zasendle ngokulandelayo (futhi ngisho ne-Wilder nelandelayo).

Okwesithathu, cabanga ukuthola imibono kubangani bakhe (qaphela lapha ukuthi abangani bakhe, hhayi abangani bakho). Uma uzizwa ufanelekile ukubuza abangani bakhe ukuthi bacabangani ngohlobo oluthile lwezingubo zangaphansi ngaphambi kokuthi uthenge, nakanjani, sebenzisa lesi sisetshenziswa esivame ukunganakwa. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi amantombazane ayakhuluma (nakuba amahemuhemu empi yomcamelo egqoke izingubo ezicashile engavamile ukuba semthethweni), ngakho-ke abangani bakho obathandayo cishe yibona abaseduze kakhulu oyofika emlonyeni wehhashi ngaphandle kokuchitha imfihlo yakho (noma ukuyingena uma ungabala kahle).

Okwesine, khetha into ocabanga ukuthi izobukeka iyinhle engxenyeni yakho engcono. Akekho ofana nalawo mamodeli we-Victoria's Secret, kodwa ukukhetha isitayela esifanele sezingubo zangaphansi kuzophoqelela umcabango ocabanga ukuthi i-gal yakho ibukeka imangalisa. Uma wazi ukuthi unokuzwela mayelana nengxenye ethile yomzimba wakhe (futhi ungithembe, uzokwazi-abesifazane bathanda ukukhuluma ngezindawo abazithandayo zekhefu), bese ukhetha imodeli yezingubo zangaphansi ezizofihla le ndawo, hhayi ukuyithuthukisa. . Ngokubeka umcabango omkhulu ku-lingerie oyikhethayo, udlulisela nokuthi owesifazane onenhlanhla ubaluleke kangakanani empilweni yakho. Sithembe, abesifazane bayakuthanda lokho!

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