Sawubona Martina
Ngisanda kuhlanganyela nomngane wami. Sesibe ngabangane abakhulu iminyaka eyisikhombisa kodwa sabe sesiqabulana sabona ukuthi kunenhlansi enkulu phakathi kwethu. Ungitshele ukuthi umshado wakhe usuphelile futhi zonke izibopho zingezemali - uthi sizoba ndawonye kahle ngonyaka ozayo. Ngizwa njalo ukuthi amadoda agcina amakhosikazi ngokuwahola kanje; uyoke amshiye umkakhe?
Ngiyazi ukuthi uCosmo uzothini. Njengamanje abafundi bazobe bememeza bethi, “CHA akasoze amshiye umkakhe” kodwa angivumi. Kukhona amadoda angama-cheat ajwayelekile, athanda ukuba nama-bits ohlangothini njengoba ezondla i-ego yawo. Nabo bathi bayabathanda omkabo futhi abakaze bacabange nokubashiya. La madoda azovala isiphakamiso salokhu, noma azogwema isihloko esinikeza izimpendulo ezimfushane kuphela. Cishe bayoba nohlu lwezaba ezizoshintsha ukuze zivumelane nesimo. 'Umkami uyagula', 'Indodakazi yami ibhekene nesimo esibi”, 'Angikwazi ukubhekana nokucindezeleka okwamanje' njll.
Yize singathandi ukugxila kukho kodwa kunemishado engajabulisi la ngaphandle. Amadoda namakhosikazi amaningi asebudlelwaneni ngoba nje besaba ukuba bodwa. Abanye baze bakhohlwe ukuthi iyini impilo ejabulisayo baze bahlangane nomuntu obakhumbuza ukuthi baphuthelwa yini.
Ngakho uma ezinika isikhathi sokuxoxa ngezinhlelo zakhe futhi umkholelwa, yeka indaba futhi ujabulele. Impela uma engakafezi izethembiso ngosuku asho ngalo, buya sizocabanga isu lokuphoqa isandla sakhe!
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