Getting caught with your pants down

Getting caught with your pants down

If you are in a sexual relationship and you live with other people, have children, or have very nosey neighbors it’s only a matter of time before you get caught.

There aren’t many parents out there whose kids haven’t caught them in a very compromising position or in varying states of having sex. Depending on what they get to see and how you handle it, it really doesn’t have to be a big deal or traumatizing at all for the kids. Having sex is a natural and big part of life so being open and honest can go a long way to ensuring that kids have a good and healthy understanding about it all.

But getting busted give your man a bj in the bathroom at a party brings a whole new element to having fun and living on the edge. Most people can admit that they have a little bit of a fantasy about ‘being caught’ in the act.

There can certainly be a rush if you decide to go down on him while on a hike knowing that at any moment another innocent hiker could be strolling by in any minute. It does lend a little excitement into the mix and can certainly stir up the loins that’s for sure.

You don’t have to do anything quite so overt, but how about leaving your panties at home next time you have a dinner date and then whispering in his ear during the first course that you’re commando. Playing under the table with each other can lead to a few suspecting glances from the neighboring tables.

Having foreplay out in the open can lead to some pretty hot and heavy times when you finally get to a place where you can rip your clothes off and get to it. Standing in line at the movie theatre pressed right up against his manhood can certainly get things started. And of course, some heavy necking during the movies is always fun and a little wild. You might annoy your neighbors though so be prepared to get popcorn thrown at you.

Being daring and willing to go to the edge is have the fun. Teasing each other right to the limit out in the open can really be tantalizing and drive you both so wild you sneak off to your car or a public washroom somewhere because you just can’t take it any longer.

No matter how brave or voyeuristic you end up being, just know that getting caught with your pants down can be fun and no nearly as embarrassing as you might think it would be. Chances are whoever catches you is just jealous and wants to be daring enough to do the same thing one day!

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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