How to Use a Butt Plug

Anal stimulation is known to provide powerful orgasmic experience. Whether during a solo session or couples play, the butt plug is a great toy that enhances the anal stimulation experience. The availability of various sizes ensures that the butt plug is a toy designed for beginners as well as the experienced lot.

To start you off, here are a few guides that will allow you to make the most out of your butt plug experience;

Butt Plug Safety

Use a generous amount of lubrication for each session. Always ensure that you use lubricant that is compatible with the material that the toy is made out of.
If you are using a condom with the plug, always make sure to use latex compatible lube for your session.
Always stop if you experience pain. A little discomfort is normal, but make sure you do not force anything up the ass if you are met with resistance.
Ensure that you warm up the sphincter muscles before penetration to ease the expansion of the muscles as they will be more relaxed. Before the warm up session, ensure that you have trimmed your nails.
Never use a desensitizing lubricant for anal play. It will make it difficult to determine whether you have any injuries, leading to extensive damage before you realize what is happening.
Make sure you communicate with your partner throughout the session while also keeping an eye on their body language to ensure they are not trying to brave through a painful experience.

Butt Plug Preparation

Anal play requires extensive preparation beforehand. For starters, ensure that the bowels are empty by going to the toilet before the session is to start. This helps you avoid a messy situation. Also make sure that you avoid fibrous and spicy foods days leading up to the session.

If you require a deeper and more extensive deep cleaning, you can have a douche/enema session 3 to 4 hours before the session.

The sphincter muscles require a bit of relaxation before game time so take the opportunity to warm the muscles up before the session starts. Using adequate lubricant, insert one finger into the anus and let it rest there until you feel your muscles relax. Next insert the second finger until you feel the muscles relax a bit more. Also, you can use a smaller butt plug to warm up before the play; just ensure that you use lubricant for this too.

Butt Plug Play Time

Once you are all cleaned up and ready to go, here are some steps that will make the session go a little smoother;

Completely relax your pelvic muscles. This will ease your sphincter muscles into relaxation.
Apply ample lubricant to the anal opening, both on the inside and the outside. Always ensure that you use lubricant that is safe for anal use.
Warming up cannot be stressed enough. With the sphincter muscles being very inflexible, it is of paramount importance that you are relaxed before any attempt at penetration.
Place yourself in the position of your choice that will allow easy access to your anal opening.
Lube up the butt plug and insert an inch at a time. Ensure that you relax your muscles and go slowly until the toy is fully inserted.

Butt Plug Positions

For solo play, there are a few positions that will allow you easy access. You could try all three as you discover which one will work best for you.

Position yourself on all fours and stretch to the back to insert the toy. This may take a bit of practice especially if you are not so flexible.

Lie on your back and place a pillow under your lower back. This will raise your ass a bit in the air. Spread your legs wide and insert the butt plug.

Alternatively, you could squat over the plug and brace yourself using your hand as you slowly insert the plug.

When it comes to anal play, patience is the name of the game. If you have the desire to increase the size of the plug, always ensure that you can comfortably take the previous size before advancing to the next level. This ensures that you do not cause yourself any unnecessary injuries.

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Tatyana Dyachenko

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For the past years, Tatyana has worked as a sex blogger and a relationship advisor. She has been featured in magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue. Vice, Tatler, Vanity Fair, and many others. Since 2016, Tatyana has focused on sexology, attended various training courses, participated in international conferences and congresses. “I wish people would address sexual issues in a timely manner! Forget shyness, prejudice and feel free to see a sex doctor for help or advice!” Tanya enjoys pursuing her flare for creativity through modelling, graffiti art, astronomy, and technology.

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