Your First Double-Ended Dildo - A Buyer's Guide

Your First Double-Ended Dildo – A Buyer’s Guide

If you’re open to experimentation in the bedroom and you have a collection of faithful dildos, adding a double-ended dildo to your bag of tricks is a must. There are a number of different reasons why a double-ended dildo would come in handy for a woman: if you want to explore penetrative sex with a female partner (vagina to vagina), if you want to experiment with flexible rubber or jelly-like dildos on yourself (vagina to anal), and if you want to want to explore experimental vaginal and anal sex with a female or male partner (anal to anal/vagina).

If you’re going to be adding one of these bad boys to your repertoire, then it’s well worth considering your options and thinking about your double ended dildo‘s primary use. The type of material you choose will also be determined by the dildo’s primary function.

For example, using a double-ended dildo in vaginal sex with a female partner is quite a unique experience: the harder you push, the harder you get it back. If you plan on having ‘energetic vaginal sex like this, then it probably would be wise to invest in a flexible dildo rather than a glass one. While glass looks beautiful, it could end up being quite painful on you if your partner likes it rough. A flexible double dong is a safer bet, and will help you to both get into a comfortable rhythm with plenty of give and take.

A double delight strap on is specifically designed for this kind of sex, and will allow you to give and take as much as you like with the 14 inch double shaft that stays comfortably in place with a strap-on harness.

That being said, don’t write off the glass dildo completely. Not only does glass make particularly beautiful sex toys, it’s also easy to heat or cool for an added sensory element, and is shatterproof to help make your glass toys outlast your silicon or rubber ones. They’re great for controlled playing with a friend or friends when a realistic feel isn’t a priority.

If you fancy flying solo with a double dildo then there are plenty of double dildos that come pre-designed to give a single recipient anal and vaginal pleasure at the same time. If you’re interested in buying a double dildo that could potential be used with a friend in the future, you’re going to need a really comfortable flexible dildo such as the 18 inch flexible double dong or the dual vibrating double dong. With easy flex, these kinds of dildos can be manipulated to double up around to give double-ended pleasure without any difficulty.

A double-ended dildo is a great way to add variation and flexibility to your sex routines, whether you enjoy playing by yourself or with a male or female friend. If you’re still not sure where to start, a beginner’s double-dildo is the ideal choice and – while short – will still pack a punch. The Double D Dildo is a great start-out toy with unique contours that lets you use one end of the dildo as a handle with a partner before graduating to sharing the thrusting motions.

Charlotte Cremers
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MS, University of Tartu
Sleep specialist

Using the acquired academic and professional experience, I advise patients with various complaints about mental health - depressed mood, nervousness, lack of energy and interest, sleep disorders, panic attacks, obsessive thoughts and anxieties, difficulty concentrating, and stress. In my free time, I love to paint and go on long walks on the beach. One of my latest obsessions is sudoku – a wonderful activity to calm an unease mind.

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