Beginners Guide To Nipple Play

Beginners Guide To Nipple Play

Achieving multiple intense orgasms is the main goal of engaging in sexual activities. The human body has various erogenous parts that, when well stimulated, can lead to explosive orgasms. Nipples are very sensitive and enhance the chance of having orgasms when properly stimulated.

Many people tend to give less attention to the nipple during sex. However, nipple play is very important as it increases the sensual sensation and tension. Nipple play can be done in foreplay sessions or during sex to boost the likelihood of having orgasms, more so in women. Contrary to the common myths, nipple play is not only for women. It has several benefits for men too.

Beginners to nipple play can find it hard to satisfy their partners as they are new to the experience. However, worry less as we got you covered by providing the best techniques and information for a great nipple play experience. Nipple play entails using the tongue, fingers, and mouth to derive wild sensations that will leave your partner in extreme waves of pleasure. Some toys can also be incorporated into nipple play to heighten the sensations. Nipple suckers and clamps are the best toys for intense nipple stimulation.

Types of nipple play

Beginners need to understand the kind of nipple plays to match their desires with each play, and how to have a nipple orgasm. There are various nipple plays that can spice up your intimacy sessions if done well. They include;

Pleasure Nipple Play

Nipples are sexy and very erogenous body parts. For complete sexual pleasure, it’s important to pay attention to your partner’s sensitive zones. Giving enough attention to your lover’s body is the start of mind-blowing orgasms. Pleasure nipple play is a great way to prepare for steamy sex. This play allows you to determine whether your partner is aroused or not. When women are aroused, the nipples appear erect as they respond readily to the stimuli effects. Getting your partner on the pleasure train is important before you start exploring more nipple games.

Finger Play

Nipples are highly sensitive zones. A simple touch can work wonders as it intensely stimulates your partner. Some men and women tend to react immensely to the slightest touch on the nipples. Finger nipple play is ideal for the beginner as it’s an easy process. Gently rub your fingers or palm against your partner’s nipple, and then experience gentle pleasures. To add to the sexual excitement, slightly flick the nipples. This enhances the sensations but maintains the pressure to avoid causing pain to your lover. Beginners should communicate to their lovers whether they love rubbing, flicking, or simple touches. This helps you understand your partner’s body well and give them what they really crave.

Tongue Play

The tongue delivers wild excitement and sensual sensations when it comes in contact with the erogenous parts. Tongue play involves the use of the mouth and tongue to sexually arouse the nipples during sex. The mouth and tongue have a great stimulating and intensifying effect on the nipples. It creates sexual excitement with the slightest contact. Knowing how to play with boobs is especially beneficial, and when sucking is involved, the nipples become more sensitive as the pleasure waves increase. The scene of watching your partner swallow the nipple as he caresses the breasts is a huge turn-on in women. This act is inherently sexy and leads to mental and physical arousal. Sucking increases blood flow to the nipple, enhancing the sensitivity immensely.

The advancement of sex toys has led to special toys in nipple sucking that aid in tongue play. Investing in nipple suckers and adjustable nipple clamps is a great way of enhancing nipple play. These toys deliver tongue-like sensations when attached to the nipples. For those who desire increased nipple sensitivity, consider adding these toys to your sex toy collection.

Nipple Torture

Nipple play during solo and partnered sex varies from soft to extreme intense games. Nipple torture is the advanced level of nipple play. It entails infliction of pain on the nipples for pleasure purposes. Beginners should not engage in nipple torture as the pain may be too much for your partner to handle, causing problems. Nipple torture exposes the nipples to pain. The body releases endorphin hormones to counter this effect, thereby creating a pain and pleasure moment.

Before you indulge in nipple torture, ensure that you understand the safety techniques. Nipple torture varies with the level of experience and skills. For starters, nipple clamps are the ideal toys for your nipple torture adventure. They deliver minimal pain thresholds that have a sting feeling. The adjustable nipple clamps offer the best first-time experience. They are designed to allow the introduction of pain to the body slowly. Weighted nipple clamps are ideal for great nipple play. They allow you to add a weight of your choice as you get used to the painful sensations.

 Nipple torture is highly practised in bondage play. BDSM play entails hardcore sessions that require the infliction of pain in the body for pleasure. BDSM lovers approach nipple torture with advanced toys that are risky and deliver intense nipple techniques. Nipple suspensions, flagellation, abrasive play, electrostimulation knife, needle play, predicament bondage, Wartenberg wheel, breast bondage, and nipple bonding are examples of toys and hardcore techniques applied in nipple torture. These toys inflict pain on the body and hence should be handled with great care. Consult your partner before using them. Beginners should avoid using these toys. Explore your kinky nipple desires fully if used to pain by incorporating these techniques and devices in your nipple games.

Safety

Avoid practicing nipple suspension bondage unless you have the needed skills and techniques.

For those with inverted nipples, never use abrasive techniques. They can cause skin breakage or cuts easily.

For starters to nipple play, when using nipple clamps, do not attach them for more than 10 minutes. Start slowly to avoid loss of nipple sensation.

Sterilize the toys before and after use to avoid the transfer of infections, especially for those with multiple partners.

Avoid attaching the clamps too tightly as it cuts off blood circulation leading to nipple numbness or distress.

The bottom line

Nipples are very erogenous zones that need more attention during lovemaking. Nipple play is a simple activity but leads to wild sensual excitements when done perfectly. Nipple play can be done as a sexual activity on its own or incorporated with other sexual plays to derive intense arousing stimulations. Take your sexual experiences to heightened levels by engaging in nipple play with your lover.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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