How Long Strap-on Dildo May Stay Inside in Me

So you’ve gotten into the world of strap-on dildo play and you’re beginning to experiment with different techniques and testing your limits. It’s only natural to wonder how long you can safely have strap-on dildos inside you, especially if you’re new to the world of anal play. It all depends on your experience with anal penetration and your own personal physical and emotional comfort level. Let’s examine how you can test your anal limits while still having a fun and satisfying anal experience.

The first thing you have to know before slipping on that strap-on harness is that you need to lube that dong. Generously. The anus and rectum provide absolutely no natural lubrication. So it’s on you to do the work. Otherwise, it’s simply not safe to have these dildos inside you for any length of time.

Another factor in how long you’ll be able to take a strap-on dong inside you depends on the size of the dildo inside you. If you’re a relative newcomer to the joys attached to being on the receiving end of the strap-on harness, you’ll need to use a very slender anal dong and you won’t want to be penetrated for more than a few minutes at a stretch. If you’re experienced with starter dildos, then you’ll be able to be the recipient of anal action for much longer when a small dildo is used, but larger ones will test your stamina after a few minutes.

That’s okay, too. Set your own pace for receiving anal penetration. Obey the dictates of your body and your personal comfort zones. Let the person wearing the strap-on harness know what you like, what you don’t like, and when it’s time to take the dildo out.

Everyone has their own limits on how long that they can safely ride strap-on dildos. The important thing is to learn your own limits, slowly work up to larger dildos, and don’t do anything that’s not fun just for the sake of bragging rights. Strap-on dildo play is meant to be safe and fun – respect yourself and your anal limits.

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Ieva Kubiliute

Psychologist and a Sex and Relationships Advisor at shopgiejo.com

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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