How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

Dildos come in all shapes, sizes, materials and functionalities. When it comes to choosing one for your play time, there are so many options at your disposal. However, if you have a soft spot for the real thing, the realistic dildo may be more to your liking. Lucky or unlucky for you, there are also a variety of realistic dildos to choose from. Here are some of the features that you should always look out for when getting a realistic dildo.

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

Dildo Size

If you are a beginner, it is safe to say that you will not rush to the huge dildos. To keep the play safe and to avoid trying to do too much at once, beginner friendly dildos span from the small sizes to the medium sizes. These sizes get the job done sufficiently and also help you transition from the natural dong play into the world of penetrative sex toys. For the seasoned veterans, the selection depends on your preference and stretching ability. Large dildos have their own massive following while some prefer to keep things regular. Whichever your preference, there is a realistic dildo that will be ready to meet your needs.

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

Dildo Surface Texture

Realistic dildos come in various options with regards to the outer surface. Some dildos have a smooth surface, and they provide smooth and slick strokes, perfect for providing the intense smooth sensations that rise to the peak before the orgasms rack the body. The smooth and slick surface are great for those trying out the realistic dildo for the first time as the sensations almost feel like the real thing, making the change not so diverse. However, for those who like the sensations intense and almost too much to bear, the dildos with the textured surface come in handy. These dildos feature exaggerated bulging veins or even beaded designs. The surface design varies from one dildo to another, but the purpose of the textured surface is to increase the intensity of the sensations delivered with every stroke.

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

Vibrating Realistic Dildos

There are some who prefer the manual strokes to deliver the sensations at the desired tempo. However, the manual stroking may get a bit exhausting and the session can never go for long periods of time. The vibrating dildo on the other hand gives your hands a break and still delivers some powerful vibrations that will have you enjoying some intense orgasmic bliss. The vibrating realistic dildos also differ when it comes to the controller functionalities. While some have a multispeed option, others only have one preset speed. The vibration patterns and/or pulses differ from dildo to dildo and this makes choosing a bit tricky. Some controllers are wireless while others are inbuilt and others have wired controllers.

Choosing a vibrating realistic dildo requires that you check the feature of each toy that you are interested in to find the one that seems like it will sufficiently meet your needs.

Lubrication

Realistic dildos are usually made from cyberskin, a material that is so fickle and prone to extensive damages if not looked after properly. When it comes to sex toy play, lubrication is of the ultimate importance. However, due to the fickle nature of the composite material, you have to research extensively to find the lube that will work without compromising the toy. Water based lubricant is usually advised, but some manufacturers usually have compatible lubes listed and this would be the safest purchase.

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo

Never use any lube without first confirming the compatibility with the toy as this will have you purchasing a new toy every so often.

Cleaning Your Dildo

Cyberskin requires the ultimate care to ensure that it remains soft and supple in the long run. After every use, it is recommended that you thoroughly clean the toy to prevent the body fluids from festering. Always ensure that you use toy cleaner that is compatible with the material to avoid compromising the toy. Rinse the dildo thoroughly with lots of clean water. Once clean, you can either air dry or pat dry with a towel. Apply renewer powder to the toy once it is completely and then store the toy. Renewer powder keeps the material soft and supple, keeping it feeling like new for longer.

How To Choose A Realistic Dildo
Julia Davis

Mental health expert
MS, University of Latvia

I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.

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