I Can't Stand Him Watching Porn

I Can’t Stand Him Watching Porn

Dear Martina

My boyfriend always watches porn, he even has a special cupboard for his collection. He will watch it every single day and that’s just the DVDs I’ve no idea how much he watches on the computer. I’m jealous of the women he watches and feel as though I’m not satisfying him. We even have sex daily, sometimes multiple times but I’ll still find him banging away in front of the TV once I’ve gone to sleep. He says I’ve got a problem and that I’m insecure as everyman does it and it’s something I should get used to but if every man does I don’t think I want to be a relationship at all.

Dear Knackered Nymphomaniac

Firstly STOP. You will knacker yourself out trying to keep up. It’s obvious that no matter how much you pleasure him he’ll still end his sessions in front of the telly. This man is getting everything he wants- ALL the time, the lucky bleeder. On top of this he’s also tamed his shrew; he has you so self-conscious that you can’t see the woods for the trees. It’s not you who has a problem, it’s him! He’s not only addicted to porn he’s also arrogant, selfish, obnoxious, and dishonest and deluded. Get rid of him. Just realise you deserve better. Yes many men love porn but the one who loves you more will forsake it to save your feelings if you really don’t like it at all. There truly are men out there that will leave porn alone if it means hanging onto the real girl in their lives. This man neither loves you nor respects you and it’s about time he got a sharp shock and was made to see how much action dear old Rosy Palm can handle.

Elena Ognivtseva
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