Adding a bit of kink to your sex life does not have to include purchasing any scary looking implements that look like they would be better used to create pain rather than pleasure…unless you’re into that kind of thing of course! This post is very much for all of the ladies out there who want to try some kinky seduction techniques on their partners to mix things up a bit. So don’t be shy, give them a go!
Let’s start with a simple one. Try to nip out of work early one evening and get home a little before he usually arrives. Keep an eye out for him and as soon as he comes through the door greet him wearing something sexy, take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Next take of his work tie (or have one to hand if he doesn’t wear one) and tie his wrists together with it. Now all you need to do is have your wicked way. Easy!
If you fancy putting a little more effort into the preparation try leaving a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom and on each item place a short note saying what you want him to do to you when he eventually reaches the bedroom, anything from ‘nibble my earlobes’ to ‘kiss me where ever I tell you to’. By the time he reaches you he (and you!) will be so wound up that steamy sex is the only sensible outcome!
If the above two ideas sound like your sort of thing you will love this one! Buy some opaque stockings such as these Coquette Opaque Thigh High Stockings in black and dress them up with a sexy lingerie set…or just wear your stockings with a cheeky pair of knickers such as these Leg Avenue Heart Shaped Mesh Rose panties and prance around the house. Make sure the heating is turned up if you’re trying this in winter to avoid goose bumps! The basic idea is to get on with your usual daily tasks such as cooking dinner, doing laundry and reading a book as though nothing is going on. Once his jaw has lifted off the floor he will be asking why it is that you are wearing your best lingerie and stockings to wash the dishes. This is where the fun starts! Begin by taking him up to the bedroom or to the couch and remove your stockings slowly, making sure he is watching. Now all you need to do is use your stockings as a blind fold. Removing his sight will increase his other senses including his sense of touch. Amazing sex is bound to result!
So give these ideas a try and use them as inspiration to come up with more ways of adding kinkiness to your love making! Why not ask him to come up with some ideas as well and see who is the most creative and kinky!
Sleep specialist
Using the acquired academic and professional experience, I advise patients with various complaints about mental health - depressed mood, nervousness, lack of energy and interest, sleep disorders, panic attacks, obsessive thoughts and anxieties, difficulty concentrating, and stress. In my free time, I love to paint and go on long walks on the beach. One of my latest obsessions is sudoku – a wonderful activity to calm an unease mind.
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