What Is a Prostate Massage

What Is a Prostate Massage?

Prostate massage is usually carried out for medical purposes or sexual pleasure. In the former, the prostate gland is massaged until it releases a milky fluid. For sexual stimulation, the finger, penis, or sex toy is inserted into the rectum through the anus to stimulate the prostate gland. Our discussion is centered on prostate massage for sexual stimulation. For this reason, let’s see how you can safely do it alone or with your partner.

Preparing For the Prostate Massage

If you are On the Receiving End

  • Clean your butt. Here, you may want to take a shower or perform anal douching with an enema.
  • Clear your bladder or poop. This prevents the feeling of pee or pee during prostate stimulation or anal penetration, preventing you from enjoying the moment.
  • Watch porn or try foreplay (if you have a partner) for maximum arousal
  • Stretch your anal muscles with a butt plug or finger. This makes it easy for your anus to receive larger objects during the prostate massage,

If you are on the Giving End

  • Cut or trim your fingernails to avoid injuring your partner
  • Bath and dry your hands to avoid the spread of infections
  • Bring latex or nitrile gloves on board for added protection

How To Get into It

Lube Things Up

We all know the anus does self-lubricate like the vagina. For this reason, apply lube around the anus to reduce friction and heighten sensations.

Insert A Penis, Finger, Or Sex Toy

After lubing things up, slowly insert the first knuckle of the finger or the tip of the prostate massager. If you have a partner, they can shove a tiny bit of their penis in your anus. Doing it slow prevents discomfort, especially if you are practicing prostate massage for the first time.

Pull Out

You want to make it as pleasurable as possible. For this reason, pull out your finger or sex toy and lube things up again. If you have a partner, they can also pull out their penis.

Get Back to the Anus

Since your anus can now take the first knuckle, aim for the second knuckle this time. If you are using a sex toy or penis, go an inch deeper.

Repeat Steps 2 And 3 Until the Penis, Finger, Or Sex Toy Fits In Your Anus

With the anus comfortably accommodating the first two knuckles and a few inches of the penis or sex toy, focus on getting the whole finger, sex toy, or penis inside the anus by repeating steps 2 and 3.

Locate the Prostate

The prostate sits a few inches in the rectum and below the bladder. If you bump into a rounded lump, whether with a finger, sex toy, or penis, that is the male G spot or the prostate.

Massage the Prostate

With the help of the finger, sex toy, or penis, gently work on the prostate in a circular or back- and forth motion to stimulate. Pause after a few minutes, apply pressure on the elusive zone for 5 to 10 seconds, and proceed.

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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