To really grab a persons attention on a dating app start by giving them a compliment. Try to steer clear of generic compliments such as you have really nice eyes and go a little more deep. When we give a compliment to a person it’s generally quite a selfish action for example when you say ‘I really love your dress’ that is more about you than it is about them. A better way to phrase that sentence would be ‘you have really good taste in clothes’. That puts the focus back on them.
Keep your first message short and sweet so you can gauge their reaction. Try not to overthink your message and keep it light-hearted.
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