WHILE DATING SOMEONE

CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS TO HAVE WHILE DATING SOMEONE NEW

Why is it important to have more in-depth conversation when dating someone new vs. keeping things fun and on the surface?

Crucial conversations help develop meaningful relationships that are encouraging and permanent. They also help understand what partners say and do every day, thus helping know why they acted in a certain way. Furthermore, they help build a stronger foundation for the new connection.

What are some key things you might discover when having deeper conversations with a new romantic partner?

You may discover your friend’s welfare and what they are undergoing in life. Their actions and talks will be clear because you would have known the reasons behind them.

What are some of the most crucial conversations you should have when dating someone new, and why is each one important (please elaborate on each point individually)?

Sex and intimacy

Partners should discuss sex more for them to have regular intimate moments. I understand that most couples rarely talk over it but I insist because the more you table it, the more comfortable it becomes.

Work and money

Talk about what money means to both of you. I always advise my clients to be transparent when handling money matters. For instance, you may have a similar bank account and combine your earnings.

Are there underrated, often brushed aside topics that can actually have a huge impact on long-term compatibility?

How to handle boredom                                                                           

Most relationships get boring, especially when the involved keep doing the same things from time to time. But I recommend you spark it by introducing new and fun habits, such as surprising your partner with new sexual fantasies or styles or an unexpected plan.

Traumatic events

Most traumas change lives between a couple. They may not understand how to handle it resulting in blames. However, you can seek a therapist’s help or take a break.

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Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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