Safe words are an absolute must when it comes to risky or kinky sexual play. You need to have a word that you can say that signals to your partner that you want to stop immediately. Make sure it’s a completely random word that you wouldn’t normally use in a sentence so there is no confusion. Examples of good safe words are bananas, pineapple, red, mercy and safe word. Do not use stop or no as your safe word as they’re words you might randomly say during sexual play without really meaning it.