As sex expert, these are my opinions on how to communicate effectively to your partner concerning oral se;
Receiver – You want more oral but often feel like you have to turn it down
Tell your partner how much you enjoy him or he going down on you but you don’t feel as comfortable as they think and explain the reasons. Be polite in the way you turn it down and suggest other sex play you would like to try. You can suggest new techniques or what you truly desire to avoid turning down the oral fun.
Receiver – Your partner is uncomfortable giving oral
Initiate the talks and explain how you would like to them to go down on you. Make them at ease by introducing to them some skills on how to better their oral play game. Talk about the fun and how you would like then to eat you up as you do. Create a comfy sex environment by appreciating their oral efforts and setting a duration they are comfortable with for oral session.
Giver – the receiver is uncomfy, giver wants to have/give more oral Giver
Confidently discuss why you would want to give them some oral fun and the pleasures that they can experience from it. Let them know that you will be gentle on their erogenous zones, set limits to avoid unnecessary dangers and feel free to be vulnerable with you.
Giver uncomfortable with oral
The receiver can talk about the importance of oral and how it can change their sexual life. Explaining that you cannot climax only from penetrative sex can make the giver understand the need of it. Debunk the existing myths on oral and tell them the different ways they can employ to make the encounter pleasurable to all and comfortable.
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