How To Tell If You're Being Financially Gaslit

How To Tell If You’re Being Financially Gaslit

(Sister, wife, mom, or nurse)

The male figure in your life;

  • is only attracted to you because you own a property or have a well-paying job
  • borrows your credit card and sweeps it clean
  • tells you to lease your property for them
  • devalues you and rushes to the court to get you kicked out of your house
  • repeatedly asks you have his name on your properties. They aim to benefit when you die.

What You Can Do About It to Restore Your Perception of Reality and Control of Your Money

  • Make financial decisions together
  • Introduce a third party in your financial decisions (a qualified financial advisor)

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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