How To Work Out What's Really Important to You in Your Relationship

How To Work Out What’s Really Important to You in Your Relationship

From a dating coach’s point of view, here is how to go about it.

Get Your self-identity

  • Are you a sex addict?
  • Are you anti-social or an extrovert?
  • Do you like too much closeness or secrecy?

Once you get your self-identity, you are more likely to know what you want in a partner.

Keep an eye on red flags

Red flags are signs your relationship is less likely to work. You may want to keep an eye on these signs to avoid staying in an unhealthy relationship.

Do not ignore Advice from Your Trusted Friends or Family

Since your trusted friends or family want the best for you, their advice can help you choose someone good for your mental and physical health. Take their advice their advice to increase the chances of a healthy, long-term relationship.

How To Set Boundaries for The Deal-Breakers

  • Let them know the behaviors you can work with and those you cannot tolerate
  • Make the consequences of crossing your line known
  • Respect them and take their needs and limitations into account
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