Break Up Mistakes to Avoid

Break Up Mistakes to Avoid

Dating Right After a Breakup

If your last relationship seriously messed up your emotional health, I advise you to stay out of the dating pool for a while. Jumping into another relationship right after the break means carrying your emotional burden to your new love, which is not good. Take your time to get over your ex and rebuild your emotional health. By doing so, you attract quality relationships in the future.

Trying to Rekindle Things

While some quickly accept what they had with the special people in their lives is over, others try to rekindle things. If the latter is you, I advise you to focus on yourself. Discover your interests and make new friends rather than chasing your ex. This will help you avoid depression and a feeling of isolation.

Not Mourning the Death of Your Relationship

Losing that special person in your life can cause you intense pain and grief. While you may want to ignore that the pain and grief aren’t there, it turns out that not mourning the death of your relationship can slow your recovery after a breakup. My advice; accept how you are feeling and take time to mourn the loss of your relationship and the hopes or dreams you shared as lovebirds.

If You’re Having Trouble Coping with A Breakup, What Do You Recommend?

I recommend professional counselling. A therapist or counsellor will help you navigate your feelings and restore your emotional and mental wellness.

Crystal Kadir

MS, Durham University
GP

The work of a family doctor includes a wide range of clinical diversity, which requires extensive knowledge and erudition from a specialist. However, I believe that the most important thing for a family doctor is to be human because the cooperation and understanding between the doctor and the patient are crucial in ensuring successful health care. On my days off, I love being in nature. Since childhood, I have been passionate about playing chess and tennis. Whenever I have time off, I enjoy traveling around the world.

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