How Often Should You Talk When You First Start Dating (With Tips)

As a relationship expert, I advise that you should talk 2-3 times a day when you first start dating. Here, texting or calling can be a tool for making dates and planning for the next date. Although most people think talking every day when they start dating is a brilliant idea, it does not imply the relationship is on the right path from a relationship’s expert point of view. Talking too much may only help if you have made a solid connection in real life. In other words, without a solid real-life connection, talking too much weakens your young relationship rather than strengthening it.

How to Keep Your Conversation Flowing When You First Start Dating

Ask each other questions
Ask about each other’s favorites, including food, sports team, interests, passion, or hobbies.
Keep away from religion and politics

Do not talk more about yourselves. This can turn your dates into therapy sessions, which is not a good thing.

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Ieva Kubiliute

Psychologist and a Sex and Relationships Advisor at shopgiejo.com

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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