Flirt Over Text

How To Flirt Over Text

Avoid Long Texts

Truth be told, super long texts kill a flirting tone. As a dating expert, I strongly suggest keeping your texts short. This makes you sound sweet, increasing chances of winning your crush.

Complement Them

Compliments, especially sincere ones, are so powerful. What are the things you like about your crush? Think about them and turn them into complements. Bring one or two emojis on board to add flavor to your complement.

Have Positive Vibes

Negative vibes ruin the nature of flirting (cheerful and lighthearted). To keep things upbeat, you may want to stay positive throughout the conversation with your crush.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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