HOW TO KNOW IF YOU’RE A NARCISSIST-min

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU’RE A NARCISSIST

The following are signs of a narcissist;

Shamelessly exploits others

A narcissist rarely associates with other people’s feelings. Putting themselves in another person’s shoes is a vocabulary to them- they lack empathy. They see others as objects at their service. They readily take advantage of other people to satisfy their needs. The main issue is their needs without minding how their actions affect others.

Often belittles or demeans others

If a narcissist encounters someone having a thing they lack, such as popularity or confidence, it is a threat. Individuals that challenge them are also a threat. The best way to feed their ego is by bringing such people down. They bully, insult, threaten, or name-call until they see the target in a position that makes them appear better.

Like being praised

Narcissists prefer consistent compliments. They want to connect only with individuals that will quench their thirst for affirmation. It results in a one-sided relationship whereby what matters is service to the narcissist by the admirer, not vice versa. Any alteration or diminished praises are treated as betrayal.

Julia Davis

Mental health expert
MS, University of Latvia

I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.

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