How to Use Vibrating Penis Sex toys

How to Use Vibrating Penis Sex toys

If you’re new to the world of vibrators, staring at your new acquisition in its seductive packaging and wondering exactly what you’re supposed to do with it, stop worrying. The traditional vibe is one of the easiest adult toys to use, an intuitive instrument of sexual gratification that will treat you to unearthly sensual pleasure the first time you put it to use.

If this is your first time with a new vibe, don’t fire it up and go straight for your clit, particularly if you’ve just bought a multi-speed vibe. Sex toys reviews have one piece of advice in common for all vibrator neophytes – go through the toy’s different settings while letting your toy vibrate against your arm or the palm of your hand. This lets you test drive your new sex toy, giving you an opportunity to gauge what sensations would feel good against your clit or within your vagina.

When you’re ready to use your vibrator for penetration, start with the slower speeds and gentler vibration patterns – then work your way up to more intense sensations to see how you enjoy them. You don’t have to pressure yourself to go from 0 to 60 in a single session. Don’t be shy about reading sex toys reviews on the product you just bought, either. The reviewers have probably picked up some nifty techniques for getting the most out of the vibe and you can benefit from their experience.

Above all, play with your vibrator by yourself first before bringing a partner in on the fun. You need a chance to get comfortable with your new toys and discover what settings you like. Playing with a partner who might inadvertently turn the speed up to full power the first time you play with the vibe can be a definite downer.

Vibrators are essential sensual accessories, but like any other sex toy, you need to experiment to discover exactly what settings and sensations you most enjoy. Treat yourself to an unhurried journey of discovery with no pleasure – it’s the best way to get to know your vibrator.

Julia Davis

Mental health expert
MS, University of Latvia

I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.

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