People Lie

Why People Lie

There is no denying that everyone lies. However, some people lie more than others. Why?

They Want to Stay in Control

People lie because they want to gain more control of the situation. They feel satisfied when they play a big part in the decision-making process.

They Fear Rejection or Shame

Because telling the truth can cause rejection or shame, people will lie to make people around them hold the respect they have for them.

What People Gain from Lying

  • A feeling of security
  • A sense of relief from trouble
  • A personal sense of power

Ways In Which You Can Catch Out a Liar

  • Pay attention to their body language
  • Watch out for unnecessary details in their story
  • Ask them questions when they least expect it
  • Follow their story keenly. Take any inconsistencies as a red flag.
Crystal Kadir

MS, Durham University
GP

The work of a family doctor includes a wide range of clinical diversity, which requires extensive knowledge and erudition from a specialist. However, I believe that the most important thing for a family doctor is to be human because the cooperation and understanding between the doctor and the patient are crucial in ensuring successful health care. On my days off, I love being in nature. Since childhood, I have been passionate about playing chess and tennis. Whenever I have time off, I enjoy traveling around the world.

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