While most of us find it fun, commenting on other people’s bodies can be problematic and damaging. For a person to undergo their bodily transformation, a lot might be happening in their lives. Their weight or body size changes might be stemming from illness, work-related stress, or limited healthy and budget-friendly food access. Others may be affected by over-exercising and disordered eating. That being said, they may be taking tough measures to maintain the body shape and size you are commenting about.
Before making comments about people’s bodies, we should ask ourselves a few questions. Are they happy about their body size and shape? Are they satisfied with the weight changes? Are they pinned down by eating disorders? Let’s face it; making comments about people’s “new” bodies means their “old” bodies were dissatisfying. As a psychologist, I am afraid to say this attracts shame and feelings of failure to the person “attacked’.
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